Melissa G.
Yelp
I went to Bruno's in search of 2 replacement light bulbs for my bathroom, both very specific and not easily found in a drug store, for example.
I took down the specifics of each bulb on the Reminders app on my Mac at home, to ensure I'd be able to select the correct ones in the store and to avoid the obnoxious sexism that I have often experienced as a female looking around a hardware store.
When I arrived at the store, I located the light bulbs and opened my Reminders app on my iPhone. Frustratingly, it wouldn't update because there was little to no cell reception in, and even outside of, the store (I wandered around for a bit). I should have opened the app at home to ensure it had synced, but this is so rarely ever an issue that I didn't think to take this crucial extra step.
I remembered enough about the long fluorescent bulb to determine they didn't carry the length I needed - just under 40".
For the small, recessed lighting bulb, I recalled the numbers for the bulb type and wattage, and also the look of the pins, but not the voltage or pin type (which relates to how far apart the two pins are). As a result, I was carrying around two bulbs, identical except for the wattage and pin type, while attempting to get my phone to update - turned on airplane mode, closed the Reminders app & reopened it, walked toward the front of the store again, etc.
One of the salesmen saw me walking around with two items in my hand and asked if I needed help. I said yes, that I have a question about light bulbs (referring to the long fluorescent bulb, thinking they might have the length I need in the stock room or elsewhere in the store - obviously he can't help me remember the voltage of the small bulb I need). He said okay, let's go (back to the light bulb section, as he had approached me near the front window trying to solve my phone issue) and as we started walking, he pointed out that I was holding two different types of bulbs. I thought, 'oh boy, here we go - dumb little lady doesn't even realize she's picked up 2 different things!' but let it slide because it's entirely possible that someone might not realize they've done this. (Although his tone was definitely a bit condescending.)
I replied that yes, I knew they were different and that I had written down the numbers on an app on my computer but the app on my phone wasn't updating, so I'm trying to remember which one I need. He responded that you gotta write those numbers down. .... Right after I had told him that I had written them down.... Strike two... but again, let it slide as of course he's not wrong, just not listening either.
We went over to the long fluorescent bulbs and I asked if they had one around 40". He said 'this one here's 40'. I pointed out that the big 40 on the side was 40W, not 40". He agreed that I was correct and acknowledged that there were no 40" long bulbs. That should have been the end of the conversation.
Instead, he asked me what the letters/numbers are for the bulb I need. Again, I said that I had written the numbers down, but unfortunately couldn't access them in the store as my phone was refusing to update. He asked if it was fat or skinny, and I said skinny. We looked at the skinny bulbs on offer and confirmed, again, that none of them were 40". At this point, he very helpfully told me that there are letters and numbers on the bulbs and you gotta write those things down. ... Am I on candid camera or is this guy serious? Especially since the numbers are irrelevant when they don't carry the length I need.
I told him I'd find the long bulb online and I think I know which of the small bulbs I need as I'd just taken the ceiling light apart right before coming to the store (on my own, thank you!) and think I knew what the pin spacing looked like. To his credit, he told me I could exchange it if it was wrong, as long as the package was unopened. I thanked him for that (though I bristled a bit at being told not to open the package - that's pretty standard for a thing like this).
I purchased the small bulb and was delighted to realize when I got home that I had guessed correctly and don't need to walk 15 minutes back there and be patronized again.
Men reading this review will likely think I'm overreacting - as women do, obviously. But I imagine plenty of women will, unfortunately, relate.
In short, they may have what you need. Just be sure to write down your numbers - maybe on actual paper.