Agape Matchmaking

I'm incredibly impressed by Agape and Maria's professionalism and heart. They genuinely care about the people they serve and bring such a thoughtful, compassionate approach to their work. Their team is responsive and committed to creating a meaningful experience. It’s rare to see that level of integrity and intention. Highly recommend working with them to find your person (like I did).

Maria and the team bring a thoughtful, deeply human approach to matchmaking. What makes Agape special is the care and intention behind everything they do. People are treated like humans, not profiles or numbers, with genuine attention to who they are and what they’re looking for. Maria’s warmth and experience shine through, making the entire experience feel personal, thoughtful, and real. Thank you!

Huge shoutout to the dream team at Agape Match! Maria, Lucinda, and Chrisoula are absolute rockstars. Their knowledge is impressive, but it’s their ability to truly listen and 'get' their clients that sets them apart. If you want a team that actually cares and delivers they are it!

Barbara has been amazing to work with and to learn from. She gives her all, working as if there’s no tomorrow, and delivers pointed, direct coaching with the wisdom and care of a parent. What truly sets her apart is how she led me through an online dating takeover—bringing clarity, structure, and confidence where I needed it. She balances intensity with a calming energy, showing up consistently like a parrot on your shoulder, always by your side.

Never had I considered working with a matchmaker (or even knew what it was) until a friend had pointed me to her Instagram profile a few years ago. I began following her and quickly found that she had a very honest, no-nonsense, practical, and most importantly (for me) a love-based approach to relationships and matchmaking. I participated in her Agape Intensive course, which I found to be both enlightening and affirming, in terms of my values around love, relationships, and value systems. Maria and Chrisoula are great about outlining a game plan and standards for which to approach dating with. Perhaps the most valuable part of working with Maria and Chrisoula is their honesty. Similar to working with a therapist, your work with anyone of this nature is only as good as your ability to be honest with them and yourself. They are both great about helping you see the blind spots that may have led to unsuccessful relationships and help you set your own standard for what they should be moving forward. My long way of saying, you are absolutely in great hands by working with them!

Unless you're in the top 10% of attractive men and have upwards of $90,000 to spend for Maria's services, you're not welcome here. I've given her many chances over the years, she refused to deal with me, claiming there is nobody in her network suited to me. Well, I actually look great today, better than most men my age. I am aging backwards, well groomed, intelligent and take good care of myself but apparently that is not good enough for her. She tells me to get a dating coach, maybe she should get a life!

I've been following Maria on Instagram for a while, and when I recently went through a breakup I signed up for her virtual Agape Intensive workshop. If you are looking for explicit tips on how to get over a breakup - this is not that. However, this did make me feel empowered and excited to get back into dating once I feel ready. Maria and Chrisoula were incredibly kind and informative, and it was great hearing different experiences and perspectives from the rest of the group. If there were a part 2 to this course, I would take it!

I follow Maria on social media, and she has completely changed the way I go about dating as well as my thoughts on relationships and dating. She has taught me self respect in relationships, and not taking less than what I deserve from a partner. Her 12 date rule also changed dating for the better as well. I tell all of my friends, single or not, about Maria and we all love her!

I first found out about Matchmaker Maria on the GGE podcast. I was instantly drawn to everything she had to say which then led me to her instagram and her own podcast. Before you know it, I became a total fan girl. I enrolled in the May Agape Intensive with Maria and Chrisoula. Maria and Chrisoula are wonderful and so knowledgeable on the topic that we all came here for - dating and finding your ideal match. I am so incredibly happy that I put myself out there and attended. This is a three day course where they go over so many different aspects of relationships. Things that I have honestly never even considered on my own. You are given the tools you need to attract a partner who will be an amazing fit for you in a healthy, positive way. I cannot wait to start implementing everything I learned in my everyday life. I cannot thank Maria and Chrisoula enough!

After "discovering" Maria through the Girls Gotta Eat podcast and following her on social media, I knew I needed to sign up for the Agape Match Group Intensive course. I have learned so much about myself and my relationships (romantic, friendships, family, work, etc.) through Maria's Instagram that I wasn't sure what else I would learn through the course and I was blown away by just the first class! Maria and Chrisoula clearly know their stuff. After just a few hours together, they knew each of the 10 women in my class so well. They got us to open up about our fears, doubts, strengths, and hopes. The course is more about finding out what you want in a match and focusing on getting what you want, rather than learning out how to be what someone else wants. It's an empowering and eye-opening weekend. I left with a new group of friends and renewed hope for my future. I know how to make my online dating profile more reflective of who I truly am as a person and how to stand firm to my goals. I am already raving to my single friends and trying to convince them to sign up, too.

I attended the Agape Group Coaching Intensive with Maria and Chrisoula the first week of October 2022. This was a virtual program that took place over 3 days in 3-hour sessions, and it was exactly as advertised! Through this program I learned more about myself, my dating history and how to create better/more successful dating scenarios and situations for myself in the future. I am a self-proclaimed self-help junkie, and this intensive program was well worth the monetary and time investment! I would highly recommend this program to anyone that is ready to get serious about dating and finding a partner. Edit to add after reading previous reviews - A big part of what attracted me to Agape was the Matchmaker Maria Instagram account and podcast and I would highly recommend you check both out if you're considering working more with Maria to see if her style vibes with what you're looking for. With Maria, what you see is what you get - direct communication and advice without the fluff. Chrisoula is the other matchmaker (Maria's sister) that does the program, and she offers a great balance to Maria. Both women have valuable insight and advice to share. In your dating discovery, there might be some things that you need to face that aren't so pretty, but I genuinely feel that both of these women have good intentions and really want to help people find "their person"!

I love the Ask a Matchmaker podcast and all the advice Maria gives. I came to the office awhile back and it was nice and clean. I thought it was a good consultation we had, talking about clients, business, and the matching process. I would recommend Agape Match if you are looking for someone specific that you can't find yourself online. Maria and Chrisoula are top notch :)

Had a consultation w Maria and, like others here, found her dismissive, condescending and rude. Dating is hard. Finding a partner forces one to be vulnerable and a potential customer shouldn't be made to feel like they need to take a shower when leaving a matchmaker's office. Try an app, it's cheaper and less rude.

Interesting podcast with interesting guests, but this matchmaking service, (and apparently almost all others) only accepts male clients for actual matchmaking IRL. They do offer other services like women's groups, but that is not really what is advertised on the podcast or the website. A women can register to be part of their data base for male clients who pay lots to be matched, but there is no real matchmaking for female clients. There is no way to get actual help in finding matches, only advice, which in a busy city like New York, is not encouraging. They should also offer the same services to women.

I participated in Agape Match's Group Coaching Intensive (offered virtually July 2021). For three 3-hour sessions (plus about 30-60 minutes of homework each day), along with nine other women, we spent time learning who we are, what values we bring to a relationship, and what we truly want (and honestly, so much more). I am so thankful for this time and feel (for the first time) that I genuinely can specifically name and describe the type of man I will marry. I highly recommend it. I was impressed how both Maria and Chrisoula made it a group experience and felt very personal to my dating journey. I looked it at as taking a class to find the best person for long-term compatibility - I don't have much experience dating, and my upbringing could not have prepared me for the current dating world. There are several books and personality/compatibility tests out there, but I learn best by active engagement with direct feedback/validation. I now have nine new women (connected via a WhatsApp group) who will hold me accountable and help me be less anxious in my dating. We have assignments to complete over the next few weeks, plus a virtual reunion in 3 months. The Group Coaching Intensive is not just a webinar that you have going on in the background while you check your email or scroll social media. It's a bit of money for someone on a nonprofit salary, but it was time and money well spent to move me forward in my journey - I have no regrets knowing that I know myself better and what type of man I want to be with going forward.

I discovered Maria through Instagram and loved her content and podcast. I have no problem getting dates, it's having a successful lasting relationship that has been challenging for me. I decided to enroll in her weekend intensive workshop. I knew I was going to learn at least 1 new thing but WOW, I was blown away by all of the takeaways I learned in just 2 days. It was incredible eye opening and reflective. She is very thorough in discussing personality types, attachment styles and dives deep to have YOU understand what you need for a healthy and successful relationship. I've read numerous psychology books and listened to tons of podcasts on relationships and this 2 day workshop has topped all of that. Thank you Maria, I feel so much more optimistic and educated with dating : )

What a wonderful experience!!!! I recently completed the Virtual Group Coaching program and learned a lot about myself, dating and what I'm looking for in my next relationship. Maria and Chrisoula were amazing sharing their knowledge about dating in today's world and all the topics that this program offers. I loved all the sessions... I highly recommend this Coaching program!!!!

I recently completed Agape's Intensive Group Coaching program and was super impressed with Maria and her team! They're literally pros on every level! It's amazing how much there is to navigate in this day and age, but Maria's got you covered! I'm really excited about my new-found knowledge and dating wisdom, and totally ready to put the tools of the trade into action! This was a wonderful experience and I highly recommend!

I participated in Agape Match's Dating Intensive group coaching experience. What a wonderful opportunity for self-exploration and learning so many great tools to take with me in my dating adventures. An amazing group of supportive women I was blessed to meet! Thank you Maria and Chrisoula!

Finding love during COVID has been very challenging. I turned to Maria A. and Agape Match as a last resort. I was not expecting her Dating Coaching class to change my life. It was worth every penny. What really stands out to me about Maria and Chrisoula is how much time they take with each of us. Though each class was scheduled for 90 minutes, she often stayed with us for 2 hours! It was amazing. Maria A is smart, direct and warm. I had high expectations and she exceeded them. She taught me to value myself and to not feel shame about my desires and needs in a relationship. I have put all of her lessons into practice and am now enjoying dating for the first time in years! I have shared this information with all of my single friends. I hope they all take her class!

I just completed the Agape Virtual Intensive - 9 hours with a fantastic group of women that will clarify and change your approach to dating forever. Maria and Chrisoula are warm, wise, direct and supportive. Also highly recommend the Matchmaker Maria podcast! Thanks so much Maria and Chrisoula!!

Being introduced to Agape has changed my life. I highly recommend the program to women who are looking to better understand themselves and women who want to learn how to attract the right partner in a positive way. Not only are you gaining access to the necessary tools, but you are also gaining a community full of supportive amazing people. Agape Match is an amazing platform that has adapted to the virtual culture of COVID and they have found a way to make you feel close and connected.

I recently completed Agape's Virtual Coaching Program- it exceeded all expectations! In addition to learning fascinating information about compatibility and dating, I found the program completely changed my mentality and approach to dating. It forced me to look inward in a way that reading a self-help book couldn't. Maria and Chrisoula are both so knowledgeable and have the ability to make you feel so comfortable talking about vulnerable/uncomfortable topics. I would HIGHLY recommend the coaching program and I have no doubt your experience utilizing any of Agape Matchmaking's services will be a great one!

If you're ready for THE relationship, the kind you care about, that could lead to marriage, get with Agape Match. I cannot imagine a better experience. Hilariously, two Marias- The Marias, the most insightful, intuitive gals I've come to know. I was shocked at the process. After loads of failed starts, all the swiping and whatnot, I gave in. I was impressed to find that they had met with everyone personally before setting up the date. Everything was set up for me, which was a real added value. Great dating experience. And If I blew it, they told me...bluntly. Another added value...no more wondering "was it something I said?". I met my current (and most serious) girlfriend through Agape Matchmaking. It actually was a life changing experience.

Maria's group intensive is packed with content to help women not only navigate dating, but so much more! You'll learn about personality styles, attachment types, and other personal development tools that will help you in all areas of your life. You'll make friends with other ladies near and far, and being a part of the 40+ group meant we were all so relatable! Thank you Maria and Chrisoula!

Had a consultation with Maria a few months back and she was extremely condescending and judgmental. I have very traditional views and have had a very old fashioned upbringing that has made me gun shy about modern dating. Hence the reason I came to her for help. I think that's pretty understandable. She outright told me that she couldn't help me and that I should watch porn to get more comfortable with modern dating because no one is "traditional anymore". Then she had the gall to ask if I wanted to sign up for a self help service that her company had where you basically pay her to figure it out yourself. Seriously? I'm coming to YOU, for help. If you want someone judgmental and condescending, she's the best!

I went to see Maria back in 2015. Very disappointing! It started well but Maria couldn't keep up with her promises for more than 3 sessions. I hope there are other people out there that can write the truth about Agape Match. Someone had called them a Ponzi scheme and they were 100% right. Happy to help answer questions about my experience.

As a busy expat in a new country, accessing Maria in a new dating scene has been a god send. Working with her team of Cupids has given me the self assurance I didn't know I needed in dating. Maria gives me feedback - no nonsense at that- and through her action plan, I see a difference on who I'm attracting.

If you're "swiped-out" like me, don't walk, run to this class. Maria and Chrisoula are incredibly knowledgeable and offer clear, tangible feedback that is personalized to each individual in the class. I walked out with a stronger sense of who my ideal partner is, along with a lot of great tips and knowledge about how to change my approach, and a network of wonderful women to support the journey.

Maria is a pleasure to work with. She's professional, straight forward and honest, which I really appreciate. After meeting me in person, it is clear she understands me and my interests and the kind of person I am looking for. My first date was outstanding. Here's to this new adventure!

I have been eager to find the man created for me for quite some time but my efforts alone have been ineffective. That was until a friend suggested Agape Match. Over a 5 session course I learned what I was doing wrong and how to fix it. The day after the sessions ended, a guy I liked asked me out. I don't where destiny will lead but with the skills I learned through Agape Match I know how and where to get the man of my dreams. Thanks Maria & Chrisoula! #2020ismyyearforlove

Maria took the time to meet with me personally. I am in the process of launching my own start up, and while I did have time to date, I didn't have time to date the wrong women. Maria really understood the kind of woman I was interested in meeting... and I did! Would recommend.

I am a huge fan of the brand- amazing advice, fantastic podcast, reputable service. After building a profile a year ago I never heard back. I finally set up a chat with one of my matchmakers and was told "it's a tough market with the pandemic". However all the advice from the podcast and Maria's tips state it's a great time to online date / meet someone. I'm sure that was just the excuse they use when they don't have a match for you. I was then told about the "group dating intensive" which I've heard nothing but great things about ( I'm sure worth the price for those getting back out on the market or needing a refresh). After a lengthy conversation I guess the matchmaker decided to review my profile while we were on the phone. They agreed I had a great profile and thoughtful responses. I was then told "unfortunately we only take on a handful of clients a year (6-12) and to try other dating sites or matchmakers. Disappointing yes, women don't pay for the service but they sure do push that dating intensive. I personally didn't have a great experience. I felt it was important to be honest here. My advice follow Maria's advice, set up an amazing profile, take the group dating intensive (if you need it), follow up with your matchmaker but don't put all your eggs in basket.

Maria has been my greatest discovery of 2020/2021. From her incredibly engaging podcast, to learning how to approach dating in this current dating culture. Definitely a highlight, found via Instagram! This led me to take her group intensive and it is as great as she said it would be. A must do for any single woman. I loved every minute and have taken tools with me that I will use for life. Thank you Maria and and Chrisoula!

Maria's matched me a handful of times with her female clients and its always been a qualified match with a great woman. Definitely can't say that for online dating! She's a no-nonsense professional, great judge of people, and doesn't pull any punches -- which I appreciate. And let's be clear, if you're not ready to take dating seriously, you shouldn't go to a matchmaker -- Maria's there not just to find you dates, but to get you IN SHAPE for dating...lots of New York egos can't handle that. So buckle up and hire her!

I was fortunate enough to meet Maria through my (amazing) boss a couple years ago. I think my boss knew that I was dating the wrong guy at the time, but didn't want to overstep and/or offend me (I was very defensive of my crappy relationship for some reason). He suggested that we go to dinner and he felt that Maria could really help me, etc. We met for dinner and after explaining my situation, Maria immediately told me what I knew I needed to hear to start making some significant changes in my dating life. She encouraged me that I was on the precipice of doing something great in my career and that I was dating someone who had little (little is generous) to no interest in supporting me or seeing me succeed in this new opportunity I had in front of me. I was settling and was defending it, because (shocker) I was comfortable and didn't want to be uncomfortable. However, it was alarmingly apparent how very unhappy I was to everyone else but myself...isn't it funny the things we do to ourselves? (Sigh). Among other things, she helped me see that I was telling myself a lie and was wondering why I was anxious, crying slash miserable all the time. I got married almost a year ago now in June to an amazing man who is my equal and partner in life. I don't think I would have either a) been ready for him or b) able to appreciate him if I hadn't taken the steps (although hard and trying) to get out of the rut of my life and start clearing out my crap that was keeping me stuck, unhappy, bitter and unfulfilled. Thanks Maria :) I highly recommend Agape to anyone who is looking to find their soulmate and their true partner. Maria has wisdom, insight, and an intuition about people, love and dating that will pierce through any of your preconceived notions about working with a matchmaking service. She is 100% the real deal. Thank you, thank you!!

I made an appointment for 90 minutes with Marie. There were scheduling difficulties, but I'll put those aside because the appointment was so stunningly disappointing. First, they meet clients in a cheesy rent-a-suite. Maria spends10 minutes with basic questions until she got to the one she really cared about: how much do you earn? I told her. A few questions about my ideal mate, followed by an offer to "take [me] on as a client," for six months for $20,000. I sat slack-jawed. I asked her if I could get a sense of what she could do, and she described this woman who might be my perfect mate, except she bore no resemblance to the woman I was looking for. Then she said she could do it for $10,000 for tomorrows. Barely 25 minutes had passed, but her next client had already showed up and she was growing impatient. Here was favorite line: She asked me about physical attributes I wanted in a mate. There were none, she let out a sigh. Some of her clients had given specific requests, but she said with a sly smile, that they must be closeted gay men. WTF? Oh, she offered to refund the meeting fee, which seemed decent since we met for only 30 minutes of a supposed 90 minute meeting, but truth be told, I'm not holding my breath.

I approached Maria when I finally realized I needed help finding the right kind of partner in life. We immediately connected and she told me about her coaching program. We went to work on identifying the kinds of things I needed to work on myself before I could be ready to meet the right one and serious about a relationship. Maria's team was so thoughtful and honest and I took their advice wholeheartedly. I evolved as a person and came to a place where I could choose someone that was everything I ever wanted and I deserved it. It brought more calmness and peace to my life. Plus the fact being more clear about what I can give in a relationship. I went on many dates and as time went on it became very apparent what kind of man I desired, how I could show up in a relationship and choose someone who I could connect with on a deeper level. All those things I had heard about the "Right one" or "We are so lucky we found each other" or "You'll know" finally happened to me (after 47 years lol) and I could not be more grateful to Maria and her team because I wouldn't have been available or appreciate once I found it. I've learned to be a better partner and am living a more fulfilled life with someone I have an incredible connection with and didn't believe truly existed out there. I have recommended and will continue to recommend Maria and her team as I want everyone I know to discover themselves through this process and a life long partner to be able to live their best lives.

I discovered Maria through the GGE podcast and quickly became a fan on Instagram as I eagerly awaited #AskaMatchmaker Wednesday content. Maria's ability to connect and provide unfiltered, honest feedback is beyond refreshing so jumped at the opportunity to enroll in a virtual group coaching intensive. Maria and Chrisoula create an incredibly welcoming group atmosphere (even virtually) where they spend equal time listening to everyone's relationship journey and provide candid feedback while also sharing incredible nuggets of wisdom. I left the intensive with a better understanding of what compatibility looks like for me, how my attachment style impacts how I date (and how to adapt), and what mindset I needed to reframe to get more serious about dating. I highly recommend the intensive for anyone looking for a dating refresh or feels burned out from endless swiping. You'll leave with a strong understanding of what you're truly looking for and most importantly, actionable takeaways to help get you there.

Agape match is really great. I have participated in many of their events and have also sought the advice of these wonderful and very professional match makers in the past. Highly recommended to anyone out there reading this!

I want to express my thoughts about Maria the founder of Agape Match. Her professionalism and competency is unparalleled. She is resourceful and works to find love for her clients, both men and women. She is one of several matchmakers that I collaborate with, and I have had nothing but the best experiences dealing with her. There are only a small group of very high end matchmakers and we tend to work with a few of our most trusted acquaintances, and I am very happy to refer and cross refer clients with Maria.

I consider both Marias to be wonderful friends. They aren't just "matchmakers" to me; they're two gals with big hearts that want you to win. Years ago, I was very discouraged with the dating scene. I'd ended a relationship and had a hard time dealing with - or even accepting - online or application dating. It wasn't for me. I googled the word "love" wanting to know it's meaning for me. Agape came up and on a whim I watched Maria A's video talking about what she does. After time, I thought why not? I filled out their profile questions and then months later was asked in to interview with them. They're direct; they try to understand exactly who you are and who you would be right for. Eventually, I was put on a date that turned into a year long relationship. It didn't work out, but years later it led to being matched up again by Maria C. to a lovely man. We're going on our second date tonight and I'm so grateful for the opportunity they've given me once again. If you're lost when it comes to romance, try them out. They know so many single people in this city. Why not see if they know someone that might be great for you? They'll be honest with you and will bring out the best in you. I've always felt like they were on my side and such a positive force in my life in my journey to find love. I would and I have recommended them to my own friends and there isn't an ounce of hesitation I have when it comes to being happy by the insight and opportunities they've given me. VERY THANKFUL FOR THEM, for their support, and for what I consider, friendship. I'll always support you beautiful Marias!

As a guy who has never tried online match making, I was not entirely comfortable either with this format but decided to engage at the suggestion of a trustworthy interlocutor. Bottomline - made me realise I needed to break from my routine and find ways to meet high quality individuals who can be vetted on the basic things which are very important e.g. values, interests, character etc. Agape does just that and I have been humbled to meet great people through their carefully calibrated match ups. I went from, "getting tired of New York's predictable scenarios/persinalities" to "wow, refreshing to meet someone on this level (human to human compatibility, backgrounds whether common or complementary). It's clear Agape is attentive to the details and they rely on your qualities and input to be an integral part of the solution, or rather interesting narrative they hope will flow well with the character they pair you with. I appreciate that non-proscriptive approach. They have an effective formula bc it is precisely not. It's a good feeling meeting people comprising the surprises and quailities you've been generally missing in the NY dating scene. We all hustle in the city and many of the ladies who sign up appeared to be super motivated, serious and open minded people who wanted to help ensure that there was a comfortable degree of coming-togetherness, enough ingredients to form a good taste in return from putting themselves out there. Professionalism and approachability of staff is superb and for them, it's less a business than a process of helping connect the seemingly hidden dots.

Maria and the Agape match team are great! I cannot say enough! Working with Maria will change your life! She is not just a dating coach but a life coach! She is no-nonsense but she is very compassionate as well. With Maria, I really stepped up my game. I was not only proactive but I dated smarter which lead to meeting my fiancé. I cannot thank Maria enough for everything!

I can't recommend Maria highly enough! I've been chatting with her for years in a professional capacity (I write about dating) and I'm consistently impressed by how spot on and insightful she is. She knows dating, she knows New York, and, remarkably, neither one of those things has turned her into a hardened cynic. She genuinely wants her clients to find love and helps them do so in a straightforward, no nonsense way.

I told Maria that I had been on dating break, you know that nice phrase a single person says when 1. You are having no luck in the dating game and 2. You've stopped trying. One consultation with Maria and I realized it wasn't about luck. I had just been a passive participant in my own love life. Maria is a no nonsense, call it like she sees it love guru and believe me if you are having trouble finding a suitable partner she is the type of person you need in your life. We all have those friends who tell us we are great. "You'll find the right guy someday" and you internally roll your eyes because how many times have you heard that before. How is that helpful? Talking with Maria is like talking to your best friend, accept she can adeptly walk you through which great traits you should be accentuating and how to approach this modern dating world with confidence. Because of Maria I find myself making more active and self-assured dating decisions. I can't rave enough about this service.