Janice S.
Yelp
Mom has been living at Alexander Gardens for almost 3 years and we have found a "home" for our mom. She is treated with the dignity and respect she deserves at all times. When she first moved in they took care of her while I moved into her room and set it up with the movers, then they helped her acclimate. I was allowed to sleep there that night, and we discovered she got up to the bathroom and is in danger of falling at night at about 4 am. So, they began coming to her and getting her up at 3:30 am heading off any falls. She had several bad falls at night in her former home and now three years later with no falls at night it is so relieving, I cannot tell you!
There are three levels of care at Alexander Gardens. She is at the lowest level, however, she has been in the hospital and returned weak after pneumonia, and was truly at a higher level of care. She was requiring assistance from chairs to bathroom and back often, and also to the dining room. We were not charged for a higher level of care and everyone that knows her reassured me that she would improve again, because they know her! She did and does not hesitate to call. She knows all her caregivers. She tells me how extra patient each one is or how long they had to wait for her in the shower. On occasion, if they notice any changes at all they call me on my cell phone. I call them and they give me an update.
Sometimes she loses her phone or thinks her cell is not working right so they help her dial me and reassure her at any time. She was under 100 pounds with a bruised head, small leg wound, and hair she couldn't comb when she moved in. Now she is pink, 110 pounds, no bruises and no wounds, and it means so much to her to have her hair styled in her pretty bun every morning. As she has a new need for daily weights, the techs remember and help her to do this and pull on her tight hose every am. The medication changes are understood. She will tell you the food is good, just right, and easy to eat, and that she is slowly putting on the weight she lost. When my family comes from out of town to visit her they are warmly accommodated with a tray in the dining room and staff genuinely want to meet this extended family.
She inspects the gardens daily and the gardeners are used to hearing her "tips" and which plants need special care. There are many places in the gardens to have a reflective moment. She just asked to have the hummingbird feeders filled again so she could watch from her window. No desire is too big or too small to be addressed. She never knew she could paint, but found a painting group to enjoy whenever she wants to. She gets to hear music, and as a former violinist, this is very important to her. She joins the group of residents daily for a planned activity. They are such a sweet group to be around! Everyone is cared for with their unique needs in mind. A caregiver keeps checking for needs and wheels people out for personal care and back in to join the others, or away for a nap as needed.
Cheerful stimulation, memory games, and beautiful things to hear or see keep the elders intrigued. Birthdays are celebrated! Holiday fun always involves opportunities for families to be involved. Recently, they had a memorial service for one of the group who passed on, meeting their need to grieve and to have memories. I observed every staff member, from the director, assistant director, nurse, and head of patient care techs, and cooks, take time to talk to the elders, who have become part of this family. There are zero incidences of stealing, no fear that cant be expressed and managed in a thoughtful way, and each need is addressed with human kindness. The staff are taught periodically on site, and kept educated with patient care concepts. They are very quickly responsive to needs and many stay working at Alexander Gardens for years, becoming friends to my mom.
We are kept aware of any changes in writing on the business side of things and have had zero errors or problems. They have often helped me with managing the long term care insurance which is so appreciated.
So, how can our family express our thanks for the care my mother receives?? It is priceless. We took the time to look at every single place in Santa Barbara and Goleta and we found the very best place for Mom to live. Thank you, Alexander Gardens, your care is outstanding!