Christopher C.
Yelp
We all know the history right?
The house is built by George Washington Parke Custis the step-grandson and adopted son of George Washington who also happens to be father-in-law to Robert E. Lee. The north and south wings of the house are finished in 1804 with the center columns and portico taking another thirteen years.
Upon George Washington Parke Custis' death in 1857, he leaves the estate to his daughter Mary Custis Lee who was the wife of Robert E. Lee. Contrary to popular belief, Robert E. Lee never owned the Arlington estate. Lee only served as custodian of the property.
On May 24, 1861 within hours of Virginia succeeding from The Union the US Army captures the Arlington estate. Some see it as a spite move while others see it as military necessity due to the property's high vantage point of the surrounding area.
The federal government then confiscates the property when Mrs. Lee failed to pay, in person, taxes levied against Arlington estate. Offered for public sale on January 11, 1864, a tax commissioner purchased the property for "government use, for war, military, charitable and educational purposes."
Brig. Gen. Montgomery C. Meigs, Quartermaster General of the U.S. Army, appropriated the grounds June 15, 1864, for use as a military cemetery. His intention was to render the house uninhabitable should the Lee family ever attempt to return and had the first burials go along the perimeter of Mrs. Lee's rose garden.
Neither Robert E. Lee, nor his wife, as title holder, ever attempted to publicly recover control of Arlington House. The couple never returned to the home George Washington Parke Custis built and treasured. After Lee's death in 1870, his son, George Washington Custis Lee, brought an action for ejectment in the Circuit Court of Alexandria (today Arlington) County, Va. Custis Lee, as eldest son of the Lees, claimed the land was illegally confiscated and that, according to his grandfather's will, he was the legal owner. In December 1882, the U.S. Supreme Court, in a 5-4 decision, returned the property to Custis Lee, stating that confiscation of the property lacked due process. On March 3, 1883, Congress purchased the property from Lee for $150,000 (after a negotiation between Custis Lee and Secretary of War Robert Todd Lincoln). Lee was less interested in obtaining the estate than he was in getting just compensation for it and on March 31st 1883 he signed over the title for the property to the government.
If you go:
Arlington House is open more or less March-September 9-5 and October-February 9-4:30.
Tours which last around 30-40 minutes start in back of the house under the large tree where there are benches and a sign. The day we were at the house there was no sign out in front of the house at the main entrance letting you know where the tour starts so the ranger who was stationed inside the door was getting asked this question repeatedly. If you don't want to take/wait for a tour you can just walk thru the house on your own. There are only three rooms plus the sun room/conservatory to see.
Don't expect to spend a ton of time here as there is not a lot to see plus since it is located in Arlington Cemetery the place is perpetually packed with people. There were only two rangers visible the day we were there. One stationed at the front door and another who was giving a tour. Past that it was fend for yourself and figure it out.
If you've been to other NPS sites and are expecting a big production with a visitors center, the typical movie about the site and all the bells and whistles it's not here. It's just the house, the North Slave quarters which is now the store, both gardens which look like the NPS has left them "minimally maintained" at best and probably the best parts which are the South Slave Quarters and the museum even though seemingly few people venture over that far.
They do have a Junior Ranger Badge for kids which takes maybe around 45 minutes to complete. The books are on site or you can download them from the website even though the ranger we turned them into was surprised as he said it was his understanding they were taken off the website months ago.
In terms of getting here it's either drive and park at the cemetery visitor center or take the Blue Line of the Metro subway system. Then you're either taking one of the pay shuttles to the Arlington House stop or you're walking up the hill.
One other little detail, the one ranger on site mentioned that if you want to see the house do it now as in the November the house and surrounding buildings will be closed for two years for a full renovation because of the $12.5 million dollar donation from Caryle Group CEO David Rubenstein. Even if you don't do the house, go for the view. It's worth it.