Judi M.
Yelp
I wasted precious resources - money, time, energy - towards what I thought would be a good experience for my daughter at Bishop O'Dowd High School. I paid for books, uniforms and a tuition that I couldn't afford in order to give her what I thought would be a better education than public school. Instead, my daughter's self esteem and courage was destroyed. She has a very bad start on her high school grades, and has to start all over again in a public school system that Bishop O'Dowd didn't come near matching in quality (or price).
Counselors do not engage with kids and with families and do not respond to emails and phone calls in a timely fashion (if at all). Teachers often do not respond to emails, and if they do it's to explain to you all the ways they are doing their job and you are not doing yours. Administration points fingers at the families for low performing kids. After school "support" consists of the support teacher telling a student to do her homework and turning away from her.
The counselors and prior Principal spent more time investigating the whereabouts of my daughter's father - who doesn't participate in her life - than they did investigating why she was struggling with her courses. Even after I requested a meeting to discuss her grades and our feelings of being an outsider in the school, walls were put up and communication was impossible. We were told that perhaps she didn't belong at the school.
Bishop O'Dowd has a sour administration that shows you the door when you ask questions, teachers who abusively berate children in hallways when questions are asked, while families who do their very best to make ends meet paying precious money to Bishop O'Dowd High School struggle to find their way . . this school that cares more about its website and its outward appearance than it does about its students. Nothing is free or part of tuition at O'Dowd; an evening "Finals Prep" class costs $50 (if you can get a spot). It's easy to get left behind at O'Dowd without even realizing it and then it's too late because of the lack of support.
After leaving O'Dowd mid-semester, I had a conversation with parent at O'Dowd who said "I went to O'Dowd, so it's easy for me to navigate the administration. . . you need to know people to get help." I admonished her - and the school - for playing favorites for children of alumni and not welcoming the new families or helping the kids who are excited to go there but don't have an "in".
Please message me if you'd like more information or hear more detailed stories of our O'Dowd ordeal. Skyline High has been fantastic transitioning my daughter back into high school and we are hopefully that her feet are back underneath her.