yogi noir
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I have been living in the neighborhood for one year, though just recently began to frequent this cafe as the alley is quaint. A brusk temper is one thing but as a single woman, when a man outrightly is hateful and dismissive and giving me a nasty, growling look when he does not understand my Italian, I actually felt very upset and unsettled for a while after. He threw up his hands and stormed out of the room when I asked (politely) if I could have some ice. His colleague took over. Once I sipped the coffee enough, I asked for some more ice. On hot days, call me CRAZY but I want ice in my drinks. He put 2 ice cubes in (the coffee was still warm). I motioned him to put a few more and he gave me attitude. I was already upset after my interaction with the thin, tall man with short grey hair. This was not the first time he has been hard edged to me but it crossed the line into a low key, emotionally abusive outburst. I think it's inappropriate to use single, petite females as emotional punching bags as an easy target for releasing pent up pressure because you are fed up with foreigners or whatever your life baggage or current hardship is. The owners and I certainly hope he is not the owner, need to fix this. My sense is if I came in accompanied with a man rather than as a single, gentle, polite female, that behavior would not have crossed the counter.