Randy B.
Yelp
Quaint and charming Carmel is all pleasure seeking -- eating, shopping, wine, naps, beach, and golf -- what could be finer? Better if it was caramel and sea salt ice cream, but still -- the name sounds good.
Things to do: 4/5
Safety: 5/5
Cleanliness: 5/5
OCEAN AVENUE -- this is "downtown Carmel". It has everything you can handle from dining to shopping to cheese & wine tasting to art. I dare you not to create romance with someone special. I just can't NOT happen.
DINING -- all along Ocean Ave has lots of options (ie. Mediterranean, Dametra), but don't forget about nearby San Carlos St (ie. Tree House Café), Juniper Street & 5th (ie. Forge In The Forest), 7th Ave & Dolores (ie. Seventh & Dolores, duh!). Also, the Hyatt Carmel has the outstanding views along with delicious grub (ie. California Market at Pacific's Edge). Matter of fact, on both sides of Ocean Ave along the side streets have dining surprises. I encourage you to explore.
HOTELS/RESORTS -- There's lots to choose from, but I can personally recommend 3 places, and they are all different. Carmel Valley Ranch (amazing golf and tennis property, HUGE, lots of space, spa -- totally wonderful rooms); Hyatt Carmel Highlands (best views on the planet, each room has one, wonderful well-manicured property), and Monte Verde Inn (not Casa De Carmel, same ownership across the street, but lovely and charming accommodations, small, just a few steps from Ocean Ave).
17 MILE ROAD/PEBBLE BEACH -- technically not Carmel, but this is the starting place for one of the most incredible places on Earth, Pebble Beach. Unreal homes along the award-winning golf course on a breathtakingly beautiful beach, truly a wow. I think it's $10 to enter, and go ahead and valet your car...1000x worthy.
ONE HOUR DRIVE (25 miles) -- worthy is the picturesque/selfies/Kodak Moments all along highway 1 on the way to Big Sur. Again, can you say ROMANCE?
NEARBY MONTEREY -- a close 10 min drive NE will bring you to another town, smaller and much less to do, it does have outstanding restaurants (ie. The Sardine Factory), and one of the only child-friendly places, the MONTEREY AQUARIUM.
SKEWS OLDER -- with that said, not many kid-friendly things to do (there is the beach). But, of the older folks (20's on up), there's plenty.