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In summary:|A member of staff took pictures of us changing, we got food poisoning, the hosts clearly hated us, but the views were lovely? 🙃||We had a very mixed time here, sadly I cannot recommend it. The island is absolutely beautiful, so peaceful and untouched. However we found the hosts (Kavita and Michael) were very hot and cold; at times very friendly and at other times incredibly rude and hostile.||It all went downhill for us when we (both female) both independently saw a member of staff appear to take surreptitious photos of us as we were getting undressed on the beach, and again as we came out the sea. The first time he was holding his phone at a 90 degree angle to himself, pointed at us, and when my girlfriend looked up, he whipped his phone back to a normal position. It could have been coincidence but it certainly didn't look good. When we got out the water the same man was sat at an awkward angle with the phone facing us, and then his phone was followed me as I walked across the beach. ||We were quite shaken but you can never be completely certain. Maybe it was all coincidence and bad luck, but we felt we ought to tell the hosts so they could decide how to handle the situation, or at least be aware in case of any future reports.||We asked for a quiet word and explained what we'd seen, but we were met with very defensive behaviour. They basically said 'no way, it's not possible, you must be mistaken' but they didn't give us a chance to finish explaining what we saw; Michael actually walked away while we were speaking! Kavita said she would look at the man's phone but then never mentioned it again, so I'm guessing she didn't. If she had checked and found nothing then surely she would tell us to reassure us?||From that moment on, both Kavita and Michael were noticibly less friendly towards us. It was a real shame, we had of course been nervous to say anything about the photos but felt sure they would handle it well. Unfortunately their reaction was more like what you'd expect 20 years ago, and we were made to feel like we were the ones who had done something wrong. We understand it must be awkward for them, to have an allegation against a longstanding staff member, and we did everything we could to show Michael and Kavita that we weren't annoyed, and to try and get back to the friendly place we were before. They just seemed to be softening, and the awkwardness lessening when I came down with food poisoning. ||Now we know I caught it at their restaurant because we'd been on the island for 4 days, and it's the only place to eat, but we were worried about breaching the fragile peace, so we were very careful to just say "I've got an upset tummy" and even "maybe I swallowed some sea-water"(!) to be clear we aren't pointing any fingers. We do understand that food poisoning is a risk wherever you go in a hot country, and partly it's just bad luck that it was here. We really weren't blaming them. ||But they became very cold again. After I'd spent a horrible night passing out on the bathroom floor vomiting, my partner went to the restaurant to ask for a little bit of sugar and salt to add to my water to make a rehydration solution. Kavita was so hostile that my partner came back on the verge of tears. Kavita knew we were taking anti-malarials (which were for places we'd been earlier in the trip, you have to continue them for 5 days after exposure) and told my partner that she didn't know why were taking them and it must be those that made us ill! We'd been on them a month with zero GI side effects. She then switched to German to say to her husband "It's ridiculous, we're not in Africa!!" and then walked off.|My partner is a medical doctor who understands German, and if they had spent just the smallest amount of time getting to know us (as they had with the other guests who hadn't reported concerns of sexual misconduct!) they would know that before they mock us in German!||We honestly did everything we could to be model guests; we felt we were treading on eggshells, trying not to make them hate us more after our faux pas of mentioning the photos. We felt very trapped because they were our only source of food and our only way off the island, but I was too ill to leave any earlier.||It began to feel like anything we asked them was an annoyance, and we had to psych ourselves up to ask for something because the reaction might be kind and generous or might be open irritatation. There's no mobile signal and to use the wifi you have to ask one of them to hot-spot off their phone, which they will do only briefly. Towards the end we stopped asking because we couldn't face the negativity that came from the request. ||On the last day Kavita was very friendly again (as they had been at the start). It was very confusing, we never knew where we stood. ||The positives:|-The island is genuinely gorgeous. It really is untouched, and so so peaceful. |-It was really nice having that time with nothing to do but read in a hammock, collect shells, swim in the sea, go for a walk, watch the sunset... |-The snorkelling was beautiful, we saw so many gorgeous fish. |-The food was mostly really good, up until the point I got food poisoning!|-If they like you, Kavita and Michael seem to be very friendly hosts. Just beware if they get the tiniest hint you might be unhappy about something!