Regan C.
Yelp
This morning, my wife and I got a chance to have breakfast with an old friend who walked in at the last minute. That was an unexpected, wonderful treat. However, the reason that he was there to meet with us at all was definitely not good at all. He was turned away from La Madeleine French Bakery & Café because he was not wearing a mask
The gentleman, a Vietnam veteran pilot, suffering from diabetes and COPD due to Agent Orange, with an OXYGEN PACK over his back and rumbling in the background, tube in his nose, CANNOT wear a mask.
Now, let me say WITHOUT QUESTION that enforcing masks and distancing is of *UTMOST* importance right now. Anyone who has read anything that I've written in months knows that I am emphatic about basic protocols, to keep people safe from this pandemic.
I don't think that my friend disagrees with the necessity. We are very glad that the restaurant is being so careful. However, the young manager would not listen to the fact that he was under MEDICAL EXCEPTION from his doctor literally because he cannot breathe with a mask on. Turning him down is tantamount to turning someone away because they have a muddy wheelchair, or a therapy or seeing-eye dog.
Now, I will admit that our friend probably could have slipped on a mask for the thirty-second walk in, had he had one on him. After all, it was only the walk to the table. But of course he didn't have one, because his doctor told him that it wasn't safe. It's not as if he's denying the necessity of masks, running around putting himself at risk due to political stance, or breaking into the Capitol building. He simply wanted to have a nice, quiet breakfast in a convivial place amongst people.
This could have been easily solved. The young and inflexible woman could simply have walked this well-spoken and reasonable septuagenarian, in, graciously, saying conversationally as she passed tables that "Normally we would not allow someone in without a mask, but we understand your situation".
She could have talked with him nicely as they walked in and sat him at a table, to enjoy his meal. Instead, she turned him down, told him that he could order his breakfast curbside to go eat by himself at home; and in doing so not only lost business, but possibly a future customer. That's all right: at least Ema's Cafe treated him with courtesy, and served excellent food.
I called La Madeline, tried to explain to the manager the mistake that she had made, that this man was a veteran that wasn't being careless, but honestly didn't have a choice. I tried to explain why this was really not right. I tried to explain to her that I understand from my daily work why the policy is important, but that she needed to be fair about this. She refused completely to do anything but offer a scripted apology - to me - for "the inconvenience".
So now, as I promised her, I am going to share this little story over and over and over again until someone on the news catches it. We should all endeavor to keep people safe, and wandering around without masks and without care for basic protocols is unacceptable. I think that, if anything, these mandates should be more carefully and stringently enforced in every business.
Honestly, I would like to see an orange rubber bracelet provided to doctors, that simply says "Medical Exception", provided only to clinics and hospitals, and illegal to copy or sell. Everybody has the right go to a business and be safe.
However, until something like that happens, understandable, undeniably obvious exceptions like this should not result in refusal of service, and I will not go La Madeleine again, until I see a public apology.