Kmar El Matri
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I was sitting outside, ordered, and received an important phone call. I picked up, and engaged. I stood up a little away from my table to talk on the phone. As I went back to my seat to start my burger, the French manager grabbed me by my arm and pushed me away, telling me to stop making scene. I walked a couple meters outside the cafe. I came back to pay for my untouched food, the manager insulted me, called me names, including ugly and disgusting. When I asked him to treat me with respect, he looked at me and told me « Are you a girl to be treated with respect? »
To which, I left.
I have never been treated with such little respect and indecency in my entire life. Yes, in Paris included. Might there even be a racial element to it since I am a young Arab woman in a very white upper class part of Paris (close to my university lol). Also to note, I am diabetic (visible devices on my arms). When I sat down to eat, I did an injection as usual, and if I don’t eat afterwards, it would lead me to fainting. The old French Manager did not allow me to take my food after my offer to pay, on the principle of « you’re too low, you don’t deserve it » (on the basis of speaking on the phone in the terrasse of the cafe??). Now, I have to find a place to eat asap before potentially entering a coma. The other waiters seemed nice and equally terrorized, so this must be a manager problem. Do not support a place where young women are violently thrown away, and where managers feel comfortable inappropriately touching your body (which is insane), for the most mundane reason. This place made me feel really unsafe.