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I once sarcastically told the motel manager, Jamie, that I started smoking because of him. I said it as if "I thought only bad people smoke, but since I believed you ( Jamie) are a “good person,” I copied you ( Jamie)". In reality, it was sugar-coated sarcasm — my way of pointing out that he drove me into smoking. He seemed to believe that.
He forced me to wake up every day at 7 a.m. without my permission with cleaning excuse. If I didn’t open the door to the cleaner, he would knock on my door repeatedly in a rude way, even threatening to kick me out. Under that constant pressure, I picked up smoking. When I sarcastically told him that I copied his smoke habit because he is "good" , he actually seemed to believe me.
Another time, I told him that attraction is not about appearance but about what’s inside. From the dau after, I noticed that he started not washing his hair for days and weeks — his scalp was covered with white lice eggs, they had even fallen on his black shirts, and his 10 fingers were stained black and he wouldn't wash them.