John F.
Yelp
Mixed review:
(1) For the cemetery and what is contains, five stars. Agree with other reviewers. Comparable to other great 19th century cemeteries, with perhaps not as many folks of international renown. Beautiful monuments with some unusual ones mixed in, plus lovely landscaping.
(2) For the management and the families of the wealthier inhabitants (or perhaps the proper word is decadents), one star. I was with a photography club there today and were warned by a particularly gnarly worker that we "needed permission" to take photos. Connie, perhaps because you visited alone in the winter and we visited as a group on Halloween, maybe this caused the attention. In any case, the cemetery manager, who was much more polite, saw us and explained that the cemetery itself did not care (than they should have explained this to their staff) but the problem was that some people sued for images posted on the internet because the plots themselves are privately owned.
I do not get the big f-king deal. I'd be honoured if someone took pictures of the graves of my relatives as long as they were used in a respectful manner. I have taken tons of pictures in cemeteries in my former hometown of Chicago and the reaction there has been either indifference of helpfulness (a caretaker in one of the larger but lesser known ones gave me a private tour and pointed out many important graves because it was a slow day and she liked to gab). Furthermore, most historical cemeteries I've been in the States are very proud of their status and their denizens (I guess this is the proper word) and offer tours.
If someone can explain to me - perhaps on a forum - why there should be such a large gap between Canadians and Americans on the subject of the dead I'd appreciate it. Also, the explanation that the plots are private property seems to imply that one cannot take a picture from the sidewalk of an architecturally significant, historical or just plain interesting house and post it publicly, since this is also private property viewable from a public space.
My opinion is that if something can be seen publicly and is not a copyrighted object, it is not subject to privacy. After all, security cameras watch us in public spaces all the time. (Though personally, I think they should be banned from washrooms.)