Marshall C.
Yelp
TEMPORAL DISAPPOINTMENT
SEEMED AN ETERNAL DESPAIR
I visited Boston in the summer of 2008. I don't travel often as I cannot afford to travel often. Therefore when I stopped by the entrance of the Old North Church (ONC), I was very disappointed that tourists were temporarily not allowed inside at the time, because some visiting choir from Canada was practicing rehearsals for some future performance there. I don't recall seeing any notice at the door with any such statement of temporary closure. So I proceeded to enter the church, when a lady informed me about the closure. So I asked if I could at least take a peek inside. She said yes. What I don't remember was whether that was contingent on her getting an OK from her superior whom she first had to ask, or whether her superior immediately arrived (then she immediately left) and then interjected, saying "no." In the former case, then I was a bit immature for telling him that she said I could take a peek (like telling the captain that the lieutenant conditionally said it was OK). In the latter case, then I was not made aware of who was in charge (like telling the captain that the other captain said it was OK). In either case, he absolutely would not allow me to even take a peek inside the church for even a minute or so. It was not clear whether they were administrators of the ONC, or were associated with the visiting choir, or both.
I COULD NOT JIBE
WITH A BAD VIBE
In 2015, I was a volunteer who read stories to memory care residents at a local assisted care living facility. So I now better appreciate not being disturbed. Therefore, if I lived anywhere reasonably close to Boston, it would not have been that big a deal. But being I only had one or two days to tour Boston, and that I live on the West Coast, and that I am not well heeled to travel, I figured that I may never get another chance to see the inside of this church. And so I pleaded with the man if I could take a peek inside. But unlike the lady, he was absolutely unbending, and vibrated that way too.
CORDIALITY BREEDS SPIRITUAL CONSCIOUSNESS. INCORDIALITY BREEDS SPIRITUAL CONSTIPATION
Today, 8/4/22, was the first time I read Yelp reviews on the ONC. The great majority gave 4 or 5 star reviews. But a couple 2 star reviews mentioned that 5 minutes was all it took to see everything. That, and having seen Yelp ONC photos showing similarity to other vintage East Coast churches I saw previously, consoled me at last. Yes, I was a bit overly insistent (my situation was my problem, not theirs/if they let me in, they'd have to let everybody in). What rankled me was that this man was equally overly insistent. Had he been a bit more cordial, matter-of-fact about it, and understanding of my situation, I would have felt much more ashamed of myself for my begging and pleading about it by now. But as it is, I had to get it off my chest. I hope the administration of the ONC might keep these things in mind when next they have a temporary closure to tourists, and act accordingly.