Tony U.
Yelp
Yes, I'm a lover of opera. I used to have season tickets here. But I must say, compared to other opera houses throughout the world, the War Memorial is a bit drab.
Although the seats aren't the most comfortable, the stage lighting and sets are as good as any in the world. The casts are usually hit or miss. The casts for recent performances of La Boheme and Madame Butterfly were perfect. The cast for Fidelio wasn't so good. The repertoire is unpredictable. There have been modern operas (Dr Atomic) which were horrid flops and there have been wonderfully animated performances of Tosca, Eugene Onegin, and Barbers of Seville.
Avoid the early classical period operas as the character development is too superficial. Do watch the French Operas and romantic and late romantic Italian Operas. Anything by Puccini or Rossini's good. Wagner's operas are very intense (a simple request for mayonaise could be two 45 minute acts). The ending of any Wagnerian opera is an effusion of intensity.
Russian operas are painful to watch (at least Tchaikovsky's "Queen of Spades" was. Ruslin and Lyudmilla by Glinka is good and the Tchaikovsky opera's are extremely cold. The single great aria (solo) to me is "Printemps Qui Commence" in the opera "Samsen and Dalilah" composed by Saint-Saens.
A good first opera to see would be "Carmen" or "Barbers of Seville" or "La Boheme" if you can see it around Xmas time.
The conductors and accompanying symphony are pretty good at the SF Opera. The seating isn't so good nor the ventilation of old, rustic air.
I sat in the box seats for a couple of seasons which are not very good quality for $350 dollar seats. They need to be upgraded. If you've been to Scala, Metropolitan, Staatsoper, Teatro Colon, or even the Opera House in Liege Belgium, you'll see that the quality outside of the US is superior on all levels. The only nod at SF was for superior stage lighting and design.
Yes, I've become an opera snob. I fly to Europe if I really want to see a good opera. I recommend Scala, Staatsoper (Vienna), Covent Garden (London), and the gentle blue, orange lit opera house in the fog in the City Centre of Liege, Belgium.
SF's ok, but once you experience opera in Europe, you realize that the culture in America is still somewhat behind.
Don't rent binoculars at the SF Opera. They aren't the best quality for the $5 you pay.
If you must eat during intermission, be sure to arrive 15 minutes prior to the opera's commencement to reserve a table. You do not want to try eating during intermission without reservations.
The quality of the food is ok and yes, it's ridiculously overpriced. The Creme Brulee is pretty decent though.