Delfino N
Google
My son has been volunteering at the ARC of Hilo, and I am extremely disappointed with what he has experienced there. He’s been coming home frustrated, exhausted, and confused because instead of learning real-life, career-building skills, he is being used for manual labor.
He told me that most days, they are simply pulling weeds, wiping benches, cleaning chairs and tables—tasks that teach him nothing about becoming a functional, independent member of society. Children and young adults with disabilities deserve support, education, and meaningful skill-building, not to be treated like unpaid labor.
My son comes home sweaty and worn out, looking like he worked an eight-hour shift—without pay—and on top of that, I still have to buy his lunch. This is not what a supportive program should look like, especially for individuals with autism and other disabilities.
I am speaking up because this is unfair to kids with disabilities everywhere. Programs like this should empower their participants, not take advantage of them. Families trust organizations like ARC of Hilo to teach, guide, and uplift—and this experience has been the exact opposite.
I hope this review brings awareness and encourages real change, because our children deserve better.