Dee C.
Yelp
We followed a group of friends here to finish the night off. While there, a man followed me into the restroom and sexually assaulted me while I was urinating. He grabbed my penis and said it was perfect for him. He then quickly tried to kneel down and perform oral sex on me, but I was already buttoning up my pants and trying to get out of the way. He then blocked the doorway and tried to kiss me. I pushed past him and told my boyfriend what had just happened. We both agreed that it went beyond the "look but don't touch" behavior that the bar's decor (read: trough-style urinal and angled mirror so you can look at everyone's penis) seems to encourage, and decided to report the incident.
During the time I was discussing the incident with my boyfriend, the man followed several other guys into the restroom. He was sitting on the bench across from the entrance, as as soon as they would go in, he would get up and run into the bathroom after them.
First I reported the incident to the bartender, who directed me to the bouncer at the front door. I informed the bouncer what had happened, and he said he would watch the guy. I was confused by this, since I had just informed him that I had been assaulted, but they want to make sure he's really doing what I said he is? Have you seen the news lately!?
Anyways, it happened again, and the bouncer seemed to have noticed, because the man was asked to leave. I don't know if I should have escalated the incident further, but I would urge the management to do a couple of things:
1. Take people who report assault seriously by immediately confronting and removing the person from the situation.
2. Rethink the angled mirror. I wouldn't have used this restroom but since I was the only one in there (until my assaulter walked in), I felt like it would be OK for a quick bio break.
I definitely don't feel comfortable coming back here.