Shana K.
Yelp
The Athenaeum ruined my wedding night. My husband and I called a few months in advance, and requested the nicest room they had. We paid a large deposit, and were assured that the room was special and everything we were looking for. We arrived to a room that was bare bones with a musty smell, dirty window unit air conditioner, and a shower that could barely fit one person. Being exhausted, thirsty, and hungry after a long wedding day, we went down to the bar. We were still in our wedding clothes, but the bar tender ignored us. After several minutes my husband was finally able to get the bar tenders attention. He asked for two ice teas. The bar tender said nothing and walked away to serve some other people. After another 5 minutes, my husband was able to get the server's attention again and asked if he could have the ice tea. "Oh yah", said the bartender who handed him two paper cups with tea but no ice. "Can I have some ice in my ice tea?", my husband asked. The bartender said nothing, took the cups and plopped a few ice cubes in each. It was about 11pm, and no food was being served anymore (also- no room service, so don't ask). We thought it would be a good idea since we were downstairs anyway to let the front desk know that we were given the wrong room. We did not want to be charged for the suite we booked. The lady at the front desk said she could move us to a different room that was exactly like the one we were in. She said the rooms were given out first come, first served and that we got what we got. She did not apologize, and said she could not do anything about the money or give us a refund. We would have to wait until the manager was there in the morning. She told us that in fact, we had reserved the "deluxe package". My husband said that we did not get any kind of package, and the person we spoke with to make the reservation did not say anything to us about a deluxe package. He asked, "what does this deluxe package come with?" And the front desk person said, "two gate passes." He told her, "we don't need gate passes. We already have them. We are staying with our family for the week in a condo, and only wanted the hotel room for our wedding night." The lady said again, "you got what you got and I can't change it. You'll have to speak to the manager in the morning." She started ignoring my husband and looked down without saying anything - just started typing. Even after my husband tried to get her attention, she kept on ignoring him. So then I tried to reason with her. I said, "we put down a deposit for a suite! This is my wedding night, can't you help us?" She said,"I already told him I can't do anything, and you will have to talk to the manager in the morning." I was so shocked at how unhelpful and rudely we were being treated. We decided to take another breath, and go back to our room to figure out what to do. The hallway smelled like stale cigarettes, alcohol, and weed. As my husband was reaching his hand out to open the hotel room door, three intoxicated people came out and started talking to us. One of them looked at me and said, "you got married at the chapel here didn't you. I know you- we've been talking about you all day long. You were late to your wedding, and this is your 2nd marriage isn't it! I know all about you!" I was devastated that strangers in the Chautauqua institute were gossiping about me, and apparently judging me for getting married again. This insult was the last straw. Plus, the room at the condo we were sharing with my family was a lot nicer than the room at this hotel so we decided to leave. I returned the key to the front desk and said I would be back in the morning to speak to the manager. We had to walk back to the condo- at that point, the buses weren't running anymore in the Chautauqua Institute. The next morning, instead of relaxing, and getting ready for day after wedding brunch with my family and friends- I had to go back to the Athenaeum to get a refund. Please help some light shine through all this mess - learn from my horrible experience. Do not stay here. Do not reserve a block of rooms here. And certainly don't expect to have a nice room for your wedding night. Don't even expect anyone to be nice to you or treat you like a human being. I went back the next morning (the day time staff seem to be helpful). They refunded the money, but they will never be able to make up for ruining my wedding night, or the precious time I lost with wedding guests the following morning.