Mandy G.
Yelp
Before reading this review you should know that only once given someone else's wedding venue 4 or 5 stars. However, the wedding I attended here last Friday was basically the best wedding I've ever been to.
The night started when our Uber dropped us off on the street and my husband and I had no idea where to go. We were walking around trying to read the various names on the building entrances when a representative from Ballroom at the Ben pulled us off the street and told us where to go. Apparently we were dressed too nicely and had a confused look on our faces, which told him that we needed his help!
We had arrived a bit early so we headed to the bar for a drink. Yes, we had to pay center city prices for our cocktails, but the class level of this establishment (the piano player in the lobby, the fountains, the marble everywhere) was so high that I didn't mind paying more for my cocktail.
After I had my beverage I headed upstairs to the ceremony and discovered that they had set up a coat check (thankfully). I took my seat and waited for the ceremony to start.
Everything was beautiful, but this is where we encountered the one negative of this venue, which followed us around all night. YOU CAN'T HEAR ANYTHING!! I couldn't hear any portion of the vows or ceremony, and on top of that the back door to the ceremony room was left wide open, so what I DID hear was tons of chatter from the hallway. It was miserable, and I hated it, especially because I LOVE hearing people's vows! :(
This pain was quickly forgotten when we were ushered up another flight of stairs to the cocktail hour. There were multiple bars upstairs so you really didn't have to wait long at all for a drink. There was also the biggest spread of apps that I've ever seen. Here's just SOME of the food I ate (I ate so much that I couldn't possibly remember everything):
hummus, pita, cheese, crackers, shrimp cocktail, burger sliders, crab mac and cheese, tortellini, mozzarella sticks, tacos, asparagus, lamb chops, buffalo chicken spring rolls, penne, and brisket.
We haven't even made it to dinner yet, folks...
After the cocktail hour we were ushered back down to the ceremony space, which was now the reception area. We found our way to our tables, got some drinks, and sat down for the meal. The salad that we had was a little bizarre - basically lettuce with oranges, almonds, and a very plain dressing. It was probably my least favorite food of the night. Shortly after the salad we were served our meal - a chunk of filet with some sea bass, potatoes, and green beans. I was SO FULL by this point that I only had a few bites of my meal. The filet was cooked perfectly, and everything on my plate tasted just fine. Never before have I attended a wedding where I was so full that I couldn't even look at my entree.
When it came time for the toasts/speeches, the acoustics of the venue reared their ugly head again. I couldn't hear a damn word that the maid of honor, parents of the bride and groom, best man, or the couple themselves said. It was really, really bumming me out.
After some dancing the night wound down and it was time to hit up the "Viennese dessert" area. Boy, oh boy, there was a thick dessert spread. Here's another list of shit I ate:
carrot cake, petit fors, mini cannolis, waffles and ice cream, FUNNEL CAKE STICKS (!!!!!), and wedding cake.
They also had a dessert liquor station set up where you could get your chosen liquor in a chocolate shot glass. There was also coffee and tea, as you'd imagine.
I've never eaten as well at a wedding as I did at this one. I felt sick all day after the wedding because of the amount of food I ate, and I'll be talking about the spread at this joint for years to come. One other thing that set this venue apart is that there were actually staff FILLING OUR WATER GLASSES repeatedly, which is one of my pet peeves at weddings. Normally you end up with a table full of empty glasses and a dehydrated hangover, but the folks at Ballroom at the Ben kept us hydrated all night long.
If you're looking for a wedding venue, I highly recommend this. I bet the bride and groom had the time of their lives on Friday night!!