Ash R.
Yelp
I must preface this with the fact that I am a neurodivergent individual and I have been going to this establishment for the past 5 years, but my experience tonight was ATROCIOUS.
First, I will start with, the security guard (a tall, wide white man, with tattoos up & down both arms and a few face piercings and tats) who initiated the issue and made sure it persisted, even after I was leaving with people who were diffusing the situation of him yelling at me for NO REASON.
I have worked at bars/restaurants for a long time and at no point would my manager encourage us to call the police on people who are nonviolent and clearly not drunk. I also happened to speak with the manager about my business and how he runs his own business, before my encounter with the security guard, and it was a very cordial conversation.
Because I am a woman who has dealt with drunk men before, I purposely stayed near a security guard because of a man who was a bit pushy and was clearly drunk when I met him. Yet 3 hours later, his bartender friend was still serving him drinks while I was behind the guy giving the bartender the "cut him off signal". The bartender kept the drinks flowing for his friend and then kicked the dude AND ME out of the bar. I was so confused, as far as I was concerned, I was doing both of them a favor. But the arrogant security guard was not listening to me and asking me a bunch of questions yet not interested in engaging with or answering my questions. I had NO desire to be outside with the dude, but the security guard kept insisting I leave with him because he saw us together. THIS IS A DANGEROUS MINDSET FOR A SECURITY GUARD WORKING IN A SPACE WITH UNISEX BATHROOMS. I don't need him policing the restroom, but he (AND the bartender) certainly should have some training and understanding of what drunk behavior is and how to interact with males vs. females, because yes, it is different especially when liquor is involved.
This is an establishment that I visited every weekend with my league, but that is done for me. As a female & mother, it is important for me to spend my time & money in places that I feel safe in, in spaces that will look out for me & protect me against bullies & power-stricken people the same way I would do for anyone I witnessed experiencing this madness.
Certainly not a "buddy" of mine.