Damian C.
Yelp
I'm not really the best representative of the LGBT crowd.
I'm not into showtunes. I'm not very artsy. I don't like to shimmy and gyrate to techno music. I may get a little crazy for the Pride Parade but who doesn't? Heck, if you find me anywhere on Halsted Street it's likely to be at the Circle K gas station since they sell any size fountain pop for 69 cents. Even after living here for 5 years and having quite a few friends who party in the 'hood or work for organizations affiliated with the community I still manage to let my insecurities get to me and don't experience everything the wonderful Lakeview neighborhood and Boystown strip has to offer. Sad.
This past Sunday I was "dragged" out to an Oscar Party held at the Center on Halsted. To be honest, I didn't want to go. I had a long week of work/school, I wanted to watch the Oscars at home, I didn't feel like drinking on Sunday night, and, well, I was hungover. However, since the SO's company was a sponsor I got the hook up, and we were able to squeeze another friend in, too, so off we went.
Wow. This place is beautiful. High ceilings, huge windows, bright colors, clean as a whistle. Ample seating all over the lobby, free Wifi, and a Whole Foods next door if you want to grab a bite (if you can afford it!). There is plenty of space in here to hold an event, watch a show, or just hang out with some locals in the community. The party itself was a blast - lots of great looking people dolled up for the event; bartenders from the local club Circuit whipping up drinks; local restaurants serving up appetizers to the crowd; a theatre-style viewing of the Oscars (where I had front row seats - score!) Thanks for putting on a great show! I'm really disappointed in myself that this is the first time I have ever been there.
Obviously impressed, I've done some more research on this place this week. They offer a ton of programs and services to members of the community, ranging from STD (or STI) testing, youth programs, anti-violence progarms, mental health services, and so on. I've noticed that quite a bit of their services are free or low-cost, and I am told many are based on a sliding scale depending on your income. I only wish I would have done my homework years ago and I'd probably be a little better off today.
Their website has quite a bit of information on it for anyone interested in getting involved or utilizing their services. Also, they have plenty of volunteer opportunities available to help out the community and to incite your personal growth as well. I wish I could speak for the programs directly, but since the work/school schedule doesn't permit much free time I am going to have to keep this in mind for the future. Volunteering is some of the best free therapy you can get!
If you're questioning yourself or wrestling with an issue and don't know who to talk to or where to go, this would be a great starting point. The Center is one of a kind and I only wish people from my generation and generations before had the opportunity to partake in their offerings earlier in life and realize that, while everyone may have differences and preferences, we are all still human and can coexist in peace. ALL are welcome. Open-minded and no closed doors - that's classy. Chicago is very fortunate to have a community place like this and it's time for me to take a little bit more pride in myself and the community.... and become a bit more FABULOUS (in the manliest way possible)!