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Yelp
Honest review from a Black person new to Portland's gay (club/bar) scene. I've been to bars from Los Angeles, to San Francisco, Memphis, New Orleans, and New York and this LGBT+ bar just doesn't hit the mark.
My girlfriend and I visited Crush on Feb 11th, 2023. Initially when entering, the energy was quiet and not as lively as you'd expect of a queer space let alone *any* bar or pub. The main area with the bar had no one. The people who were there were congregated in another quiet room watching a performance. In that room, there was a performer dancing with music playing but no audience member was clapping or verbalizing feedback to the performer. It's not something I'm personally used to nor have I ever seen. Me and my girlfriend walked up and started clapping and shouting to give the performer the flowers we felt they deserved. Despite the awkward vibes, we still decided to give the bar a chance and stayed for a few hours which soon became a regrettable decision.
I had brought my gf to Crush (both visited for the first time) to treat her to a good time. Unfortunately, she was made uncomfortable by the bartender who repeatedly gave her intimate glances and leaned in (encroaching on her personal space) trying to initiate more intimate glances when handing her drinks. I'll note that I didn't receive this attention *not that I wanted it*. My girlfriend pointed out to me how uncomfortable she was with this unrequited attention and the disrespect she felt to our relationship as a couple. She wasn't returning that energy and we mutually dislike the discomfort she felt. She's used to being flirted with but this attention was to the point of unprofessionalism and unease.
After kissing my girlfriend and comforting her, the bartender gave me negative glances and refused to interact with me and provide basic customer service. She then overcharged us for our food and drinks:
1. For food, we ordered a chili cheese dog with bacon:
a) Chili cheese dog ($10)
b) bacon ($1)
c) lettuce (we were directly informed that this addition would be free and we agreed that it makes sense because it's regular-degular iceberg lettuce)
d) chicken strip basket ($13)
Amount total: $24
Amount charged: $26
Method of payment: Cash ($25) and Debit card ($1)
Discrepancy: $2 (unaccounted for; overcharge was not explained)
2. For drinks, we ordered 2 cascade coffees and 1 lavender lemonade:
a) 2 cascade coffees ($10/each)
b) 1 lavender lemonade ($9).
Amount total: $29
Method of payment: Card
Discrepancy: N/A (this charge on my card makes sense).
3. Additional $19 pending charge
a) We did not order any other food or drink that would amount to this
b) We also welcome an explanation from the business and would love this charge to be revoked
When reviewing my bank statement, however, I was charged an additional $19 which I am requesting a removal of in addition to a refund for the $2 aforementioned (and unaccounted for). Honestly, with how my gf was made uncomfortable and how the drinks tasted, we want a whole refund for the experience. The bartender wouldn't leave her alone the whole night and transacted small overcharges when all we wanted to do was love on one another in a safe space.
I have attached picture for evidence of the unexplained (pending) charge. The charge is circled in red.
As for the quality of the food, the chef killed it when preparing the chili cheese dog (my girl loved it). The chicken strips and fries were also solid and what you'd expect of bar food. The food itself was reasonably priced. No complaints there.
The drinks in terms of the alcoholic content and ratio were off and nothing to write home about. The cascade coffees and lemonade were slightly too strong but if you want to get slightly buzzed then they do that well enough.
*One star for the chef* and deducting 4 for the bartender's unprofessionalism and quality of drinks. Would we return for the energy and drinks? No. If we aren't contacted, I'm going in for an in-person refund.
The chef's food deserves a takeout order though. The chef's energy was also great and she was kind to my girlfriend. The overall space, though, was just meh.