Julie F.
Yelp
(It seems the same bald Irish bartender tried his best to ruin another lovely evening. And I also think he's a total homophobe.)
TOTAL DISCRIMINATION. If you are gay or queer or in any way progressive, AVOID THIS BAR. I cannot believe this happened to us in Brooklyn. In NYC. In 2017. My dear friend and I were hanging out tonight on the sofa, catching up, next to the Christmas tree, enjoying the fireplace. We'd ordered two rounds of drinks, spaced out by two hours--which is normal, a round per hour. Eventually we were sitting closer and I was leaning against her, her arms wrapped around me--- on a big sofa, in front of a fireplace at midnight on a Friday night. She had just closed out the tab. The bartender, not our waiter who had been serving us all night long, came up to us 5 minutes later and rudely and abruptly said: "are you ordering anything else? because if you're not, you need to leave. Other people want this sofa. So order or leave."
There was no one around us. No one hovering over the sofa-- the bar was not close to being full. No one was looking at us or waiting on us. The bartender was clearly uncomfortable with us, two women, showing affection in his bar. We weren't kissing, not touching in any type of sexual way. Fully clothed, fully appropriate.
We are shocked. We pack up our things. I walk over to the bartender and say, "who? Who is asking to sit on the sofa?" He replies: "That's none of your business." "There is no one waiting on the sofa, " I say. "We've been here for two hours and have ordered two rounds. You are pushing us out because we are two women showing affection. If we were a heterosexual couple, you wouldn't have noticed us."
"It's time you leave," he says.
I should have caused a scene. I was too shocked. I felt disrespected and humiliated. I should have raised my voice so that everyone could hear what he had done. Instead I'm writing this review, calling his manager and complaining to the BBB. This is the Trump era, the patriarchy fully activated.
Do not support this establishment.