Karl K.
Yelp
First and foremost, I would like to express my genuine appreciation to the Fred Jones Jr. Museum of Art for hosting such a wonderful exhibit- the Immortals was truly breathtaking. Though we had an incident there today Sunday, January 31, 2016 that even now, several hours later, still disturbs me.
My son who is an OU alumni and his wife drove in from out-of-town today specifically to visit the museum. Accompany us were my wife and our eight children, varying in ages between two and twenty; two of whom will be attending OU this fall. As you can see, we are big OU supporters and Norman residents.
When we arrived today we were greeted by what seemed to be a cheerful counter clerk who asked us for our zip code. Upon giving it to him, he noticed that I was carrying a water bottle. He immediately informed us that we were not allowed to take food or drink into the museum (obvious enough). Then he noticed that our two-year old daughter had a tippy-cup with water in it, to which he that needed to remain at the counter as well. At that point I simply said in an inquisitive manner, "But she is a baby and the cup will stay in her mother's purse." That's when everything changed.
His immediate response, in front of my wife and children was, "Sir, I'm going to have to ask you to leave. You are being argumentative!" What??? He said it again, "Sir, I'm going to have to ask you to leave. You are being argumentative!" I said, "Okay, I'll leave the water here." To which he said, "It's too late- leave."
My wife and I stood there dumbfounded. I said, "I would like to see your manager." So he called the manager. While waiting for the manager, he stood behind the counter making silly, goofy faces at us. I just stood there staring at him, not believing what was happening. Then he said, "You can stare at me all you want, but it's not going to help."
At that point, I just looked down and waited for the manager to arrive.
When the manager arrived, I explained to him what had happened and he was gracious enough to not only let us in, but explain where the drinking fountains were in case we needed them.
Sad to say, but this incident affected me the entire duration of my visit. So much so, about 30 minutes into the visit, I found the manager and told him again how astonished I was that this had happened and that I was glad he showed up.
It is now almost 7:00 pm and I am still very bothered by this event, enough so that I felt I had to write.
If there was something in my mannerism that caused this young man to behave so rudely, I am truly sorry. Quite frankly though, I am truly offended. Even my son, the OU graduate, apologized to me for the behavior of this young man. The more I think about it, the more I feel like I was being discriminated against because of my race, or my sexual orientation. I sincerely hope that they will speak with this young man and offer him training or guidance on how to treat guests.