RUST N.
Google
Last night my three friends and I walked into this bar hoping to grab a quick drink and unwind, but the experience immediately made us feel unwelcome.
As soon as we walked in, the doorman seemed to assume that one of my friends was intoxicated because he walks with a limp. My friend has a disability he doesn’t use a cane, but he does walk with a noticeable limp. Instead of simply greeting us or asking if everything was okay, the doorman questioned whether we should even be allowed in. We essentially had to disclose my friend’s disability just to enter the bar, which was incredibly uncomfortable and inappropriate. No one should have to explain their disability just to be allowed into a public space.
After that, we went over to the bar. Two of us ordered drinks without any issue. The bar itself was completely empty, and the bartender even mentioned that it had been a slow night.
Trying to lighten the mood, our third friend joked and said something along the lines of, “I just want an ice water and a shot hey Let’s take a shot together,” offering to buy one for the bartender. Of course, no bartender is obligated to drink with customers that’s completely understandable. But instead of politely declining, the bartender responded by saying, “No there’s water in the back ,. I’m not your peer.”
That response felt unnecessarily rude and dismissive. While it’s true that many service trainings emphasize that staff and patrons aren’t “peers,” saying that directly to customers who are simply trying to be friendly comes off as disrespectful. There are many ways to decline without making people feel belittled.
Hearing that comment ….especially coming from a white bartender speaking to three Black customers made the interaction feel even more uncomfortable and distasteful.
At that point, we finished our drinks and left. What should have been a simple stop for a drink turned into an experience where we felt judged, unwelcome, and disrespected.
I personally would not return here, and based on our experience I wouldn’t recommend this bar to people of color