yaire O.
Google
I delivered my daughter under the care of Dr. Blackburn, and my experience with her was extremely disappointing. Throughout my labor, she made comments that were rude, unhelpful, and completely inappropriate for someone in her position. She repeatedly told me I “wasn’t pushing right” and to “push harder,” without offering real guidance or support. I also overheard her telling the nurses to only call her “when the head is out” and questioning why they kept calling her if I “wasn’t going to push correctly.” Hearing that during labor was discouraging and unprofessional.
She even entered the room at times while eating, which made me feel like she wasn’t taking my delivery seriously. When she stretched my cervix, it felt very aggressive, and she didn’t communicate or prepare me for what she was doing.
After I delivered my daughter, I tore and needed stitches. When I told her I could feel the needle and that it really hurt, she dismissed me completely and told me it was “all in my head” and that it “doesn’t hurt.” Being in that vulnerable moment and having my pain minimized was incredibly upsetting.
The only person who truly supported me during this experience was my nurse, Velda. She stood by my side the entire time, was kind, patient, and genuinely helpful. She did more for me than the actual doctor, and I’m very grateful for her care.
This was a major moment in my life, and instead of feeling supported by my doctor, I felt dismissed and talked down to. Patients deserve better, especially during childbirth. I hope this feedback leads to improved professionalism, communication, and compassion for future patients.