Highgrove Estate

I cannot recommend Highgrove Estate enough!! They turned what could have easily been a stressful, rainy wedding day into the most effortless and elegant experience. Angela was so reassuring while laying out our ceremony options before guests started arriving. We were grateful to have been given all day to ponder our decision and amazed how quickly the flip was made once our 'thumbs up' was given. The ceremony was perfectly intimate in their outdoor fireplace area, even for ~100 guests. Even though we didn't get to say our "I do's" under the pergola, we still managed to get some wedding party photos during cocktail hour. Above all I'm so glad we had another ceremony option and the last-minute change had absolutely no negative effect, if anything it made our big day even better and more unique. Ceremony aside, I was so pleased with how well the Highgrove Estate team worked with our vendors. The entire flow of the day was seamless and we got so many compliments from our guests about the friendly staff, amazing food, and overall beautiful venue.

We cannot thank Highgrove’s team enough! They truly made our wedding day absolutely perfect. Our guests raved about the food, drinks, and service all night and the stunning views of the venue. We especially loved the pre-wedding event Highgrove has for couples to preview the menu and services. This event really helped us finalize our decisions and further excited us for our wedding day experience with this team. The beauty bus was a perfect space for getting ready (bridal party of 8) and the bridal and grooms suites were spacious and the perfect place to relax before the ceremony. Our planner was Angela and she was very attentive, responsive, and helped make sure everything went according to plan. We also had the pleasure of working with Heather for our wedding cake. She did an amazing job and created an absolutely stunning cake for us! Overall, we are extremely happy we chose Highgrove for our wedding venue!

Getting married at the Highgrove Estate was the best decision I made. Everything from start to day of went seamlessly. I had Angela as my coordinator and she answered all my questions in a timely manner. I loved how they provided majority of what was needed to have a great day. The food - absolutely AMAZING. The cake - delicious!! Bridal and Groom suite - clean and aesthetic. The ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception space were everything I dreamed of. If you're looking for a venue which is the full package and WON'T break the bank, look no further. I would recommend this venue to anyone.

We couldn't be happier with our experience at HighGrove Estate it was truly the perfect all-inclusive wedding venue for our big day! From start to finish, everything was seamless and beautiful. One of the biggest highlights was working with our day-of coordinator, Angela. She was absolutely incredible, organized, and always two steps ahead. Angela made sure everything ran on time and handled every detail. It felt like she genuinely cared about us and our day, and that made all the difference. The venue itself is breathtaking, the grounds are meticulously maintained, the ceremony space is romantic and elegant, and the reception area has a timeless charm that photographs beautifully. The all-inclusive package made planning so much easier. Our guests are still raving about the food, the atmosphere, and how smoothly everything went. If you're looking for a venue that combines beauty, professionalism, and heartfelt service, HighGrove Estate is the place. We are so thankful to Angela and the entire team for making our wedding day truly unforgettable.

Dear Angela and High Grove Staff, We’re still absolutely glowing from Jenna and Charlie’s wedding and couldn’t let another moment pass without thanking you from the bottom of our hearts. The entire day was breathtaking — a true reflection of their love and style, and we know that’s because of your incredible work in bringing their vision to life. From the very first detail to the final bubble send-off, everything was seamless, thoughtful, and stunning. It was clear how much care and intention went into every element. Beyond the beauty, it was the feeling of being supported — as a couple, and as a family — that meant the world to us. You created a space where we could be fully present in the joy of the day, knowing everything was in the most capable hands. Thank you, Angela, for your grace, professionalism, and heart. It was truly the perfect day, and your work made it unforgettable. With sincere appreciation, Stacy & Richard Doak

This venue is AMAZING! Really, there is not another venue like it anywhere near this area. I researched and toured SO many venues in the area and I was looking for something to be as all-inclusive as possible. I wanted the wedding process and my wedding day to be as stress free as possible. But all the other venues barely gave you anything other than the space and maybe the tables and chairs. But Highgrove does SO much for you! They have an in house chef so all you have to do is choose your menu and they do the rest! They also have a cake decorator they work with, so one less thing you have to worry about. They provide the tables/chairs/linens and a day-of coordinator for the wedding and even more! Seriously, they really took on the majority of the work and made what I had to do so much easier. The venue is BEAUTIFUL and the food was SO GOOD. My guests also kept repeating this as well. Angela (the coordinator) was super helpful and meticulous when it came to the details of the wedding. On the day of I actually got sick during the reception and Angela was so helpful in keeping things on track and checking in with me to see what I wanted to do. Truly, a fantastic experience and I couldn't recommend this venue highly enough for a bride that wants to have a stress-free and incredibly fun and beautiful wedding day!

We cannot say enough good things about our experience at Highgrove Estate! We had our wedding here in August 2025 and it was the most perfect day, hugely due to the venue. Our guests raved about the excellent service, the kind staff, delicious food and the general beauty of the venue. We absolutely loved that it was a pretty all-inclusive venue to include food, bar, linens, cake, etc. as there are not many venues that offer that in the area. Communication-- Since booking the year before, all invoices, menus/price lists, and other details were clearly communicated in our portal (Releventful) where we had an open line of communication with all staff and vendors. It was nice to have one place to find all information provided by the venue. While we only virtually met with our day of coordinator once, we were able to message at any time and receive prompt responses. Angela was able to message vendors directly as well, taking that off my plate during the wedding weekend. Food-- we chose an entree not provided at the tasting and it turned out absolutely delicious! The presentation was great as well. The cocktail h'our devours were delicious and guests loved the fry bar we added! We were grateful to be able to add a second bar for a pretty reasonable price. Angela, our coordinator, made sure we were given appetizers and drinks during cocktail hour up in the suite while we were away from guests and also packed us up food to go at the end of the night. The krispy kreme flambe was amazing and we were so excited to share with guests! Cake-- the fact that cake is included in all tier packages is wonderful! It made the process very easy. We picked a chocolate cake with peanut butter buttercream and chocolate ganache and it was delicious! We upgraded to get a design on our cake and it could not have been more perfect-- it was beautiful! Decor/ambience-- Highgrove provides most of the decor and furniture that would be needed for a wedding (cocktail hour seating, tables, couches, bars, etc.) which was great! We added minimal decor because we felt the venue was beautiful enough on its own. The string light ceiling inside the ballroom is stunning and the back patio for cocktail hour/ceremony is beautiful. Inside, the suites and the living room areas are beautifully furnished. It could not have been a more perfect space for our wedding and we cannot thank the Highgrove staff enough for welcoming our guests and making it a magical day! It was so nice to be hands off and not worry about anything the weekend of the wedding. We trusted them and their vision completely and they did not disappoint!

Highgrove Estate was the perfect venue for our wedding, and we are so grateful for the experience we had there. My husband and I were both in school during our engagement, so choosing an all-inclusive venue was incredibly important to us. Highgrove made the wedding planning process as seamless as it could have been. Our bridal coordinator (included with the venue) was wonderful to work with. She was organized, responsive, and endlessly patient with our many questions throughout the planning process. Having that level of support made everything feel manageable and took so much stress off our plates. The property itself is extremely beautiful (our photos were incredible!), and it was clear to us that the staff genuinely cared about our experience. We felt supported throughout the planning process and on our wedding day, which made a big difference for us. We are very grateful to the Highgrove staff and would gladly recommend Highgrove Estate to couples looking for an all-inclusive venue with a thoughtful, attentive team.

Absolutely amazing and gorgeous venue! I was privileged to attend the most special wedding here yesterday. This place is hands down the most gorgeous venue anywhere near Raleigh. The staff is amazing, the flow of the wedding/cocktail/reception was impeccable. The decorations and sheer beauty of the entire property is breathtaking. If you are looking for a venue for your special day or, invited to share someone's special day I highly recommend going and seeing it for yourself. Gorgeous grounds - the trees are so cool. I promise you will fall in love with the charm and elegance that is Highgrove Estate.

Had our wedding here. It was phenomenal Angela and the staff were great and helped to accommodate everything. It was a perfect day with 0 issues. Had multiple attendees tell us it was the prettiest venue they've been to. Would highly recommend.

Brides beware. This venue is absolutely gorgeous and the food and cocktails are amazing, but the people running it lack a moral compass (and you will be nickled and dimed for ev-ery-thing). All I can say is be thankful you were not an early 2020 bride-to-be. When the venue cancelled our wedding, they gave us the choice to have either a Monday or Thursday wedding in the fall, yet, they were going to charge us the same rate as our original weekend date during the regular season. When we tried to move our wedding to the spring of 2021, as Covid was still raging, they said that those dates were for new clients only. We were devastated as we had remained loyal to them, even with the weekday wedding relegation. I had to email them from a different address pretending to be someone brand new to find out when the open spring dates were. And there were so many. When I reached out to them from my normal email address and told them of my newfound knowledge, they flatly told me again that those were not for us but new customers only. My husband and I were LIVID. We were living through an unprecedented pandemic, not simply flip-flopping on when we wanted to get married. They were merciless and so rude. Thankfully, it came to light that our signed contract with them stated we were allowed to change our wedding date to one within 365 days of the original day, as long as we put down another deposit (which was absolutely ridiculous considering it was an act of God that got our wedding cancelled in the first place). They begrudgingly had to accept it, but by that time I had already been crying and crying as to how this venue had treated an incredibly loyal couple. Their original perkiness was such a facade--they only cared about the fact they had to follow the contract. For any potential brides looking at this venue, make sure you read all the fine print; do not let them fool you that they actually care about you and your big day, you are a dollar sign; do not expect any enthusiasm from your wedding planner, as ours seemed very checked out during the whole process; and make SURE they package up and give you any extra food at the end of your wedding that guests who cancelled last minute would've eaten. They told us they would, but that didn't happen. When we called them the next day about it, they gave us a hard time. We stood firm on it, because that is money WE spent, and they finally agreed to it, but we had to drive almost 2 hours round-trip just to pick it all up. They should have just given it to us the night of like they said they would. Even the day after the wedding they were still being sketchy and rude. I thought I was over everything, as this was 2+ years ago, but my blood is boiling yet again writing this long overdue review.

My friend got married here recently and this was one of the most beautiful weddings I have ever been to. The food was delicious, the coordinating was smooth and we really enjoyed all the different spaces for different moments of the day.

From the very beginning of decision making to very end of our celebration I found their services, staff and commitment to excellence bar none. Not only was the wedding planner personable but kind, detailed oriented and accommodating. Everyone was beyond exceptional and the food was 5-star gourmet and delicious. Our daughter and son in law had the most beautiful wedding they could imagine. Thank you High Grove Estate Team!

I have absolutely enjoyed the wedding planning process with this team! From day one they made me feel welcomed and like they were here for me and my future husband. Other venues we visited were great but only offered certain things or didn't allow certain things. When we toured this venue, not only was it beautiful, but the highly accommodating team made sure I knew they were here to make my day all I ever wanted. It's an all inclusive venue so almost everything was already taken care of. All I needed to do was find a photographer/videographer, DJ, and florist. They give a preferred vendors list though that gives plenty of options that work closely with the venue so even that process was made extremely easy. The wedding coordinator, food, drinks, cake...everything was all already included. Not to mention absolutely stunning and delicious! All of my guests asked me who catered and were shocked to find out it was the venue! They had so many options to choose from food wise and a few different service options to cater to every price point! I never felt overwhelmed or stressed by this whole process and my wedding coordinator was there to answer all of my outrageous questions! I will absolutely recommend this venue to any and everyone who asks! It was an amazing and easy experience! 10 out of 10 all the way around! I didn't take any pictures of the food as I was too busy eating it but it was so delicious! Beyond words!!

My wife and I went with my Sister and Niece to take a look at their property for my Niece's wedding. After spending 2 hours listening to the sales person, I casually asked if they had ever hosted a same sex wedding expecting the answer to be yes. We were all shocked when we were told they do not allow same sex weddings because the owner doesn't agree with allowing same sex marriages. If you are going to discriminate...be upfront about it and don't try to hide it. If you are serving the public, you should serve everyone!!

Beautiful venue and everything seemed well organized. Food was amazing and staff extremely helpful. If you are getting married this place is Def worth checking out!

After visiting this estate while wedding planning, it seems beautiful on the outside. My opinion changed when I found out that they discriminate openly. They were willing to book my wedding but after seeing media coverage on their views, we chose another venue. My partner is trans and they had no idea they would have been booking for the lgbtq community. I dodged a bullet when I chose another place to get married. I would never support a business that discriminates against another person.

Gorgeous. Simply gorgeous. Roughly three years ago my husband and I were married at Highgrove and it was a beautiful day on all accounts. Not only is the estate clean, chic and lovely but you get it all to yourself! It was the perfect choice for an intimate but spacious wedding day. We were married under the trellis and partied on through the night in the lit and air conditioned tent. The staff who worked our wedding were incredibly friendly and knowledgeable - from the servers to the day-of wedding coordinator. While the day of staff were wonderful, there definitely were days and weeks during the planning process when it was difficult to get the owners and management to respond to questions and requests. Regardless, they are well connected with vendors around town and definitely steered us in the right direction. In terms of the estate itself, there is plenty of parking for a small-medium sized wedding, ample space for the bride and groom (and party) to get ready and pretty views of the greenery and pond. It is really worth noting that the chefs are incredibly talented - the food was ah-mazing. If you're considering an outdoor wedding in the Raleigh area and you're looking for something that's beautiful and intimate, Highgrove is definitely a place you need to look in to.

Highly recommend! Beautiful venue, great staff! Far exceeded my expectations. My daughter was married there on 5/15 and was thrilled with the venue, food, staff and the entire experience. Several guests commented that it was the best wedding event that they had experienced. If you are looking for the perfect venue to host a wedding, Highgrove Estate is a no brainer!

This place is a hoax, filled with lies to their brides. BEWARE!!!!! Their contracts are as fishy as management. I've owned event planning businesses and I can tell you this place is a hoax.

Beautiful wedding venue. Top shelf everything down to last detail. I would highly recommend having a wedding here as there is nothing that isn't done for you. You just need to show up and enjoy your wedding!!

My daughter was married at Highgrove in July. We had a great experience with them. They made everything very easy. We used their all inclusive package, which includes the DJ, florist, and photographer. You are given a choice of 3 different vendors from each category. They were terrific. Everyone was very professional. We didn't have to worry about a thing, everything was taken care of. The house and grounds are beautiful. The reception space is air conditioned, which is important in the summer! The interior of the house was just freshened up in the fall, with fresh paint colors, light fixtures, refinished floors, furniture and decorations. The food at Highgrove is amazing. It was absolutely delicious. This was another plus- not having to find a catering company. Wedding cake, linens, tables and chairs are also included. The photographer, florist and DJ had worked at Highgrove many times and were very familiar with the venue. They were all there before the bride even arrived! We had many people tell us that this was the best wedding they had ever been to.

My son was married here and it was absolutely beautiful. The director did an excellent job from start to finish.

My daughter and her partner wanted to come out to Highgrove to discuss their August 2020 wedding, but were told the owner does not participate in same sex weddings. Highgrove provided other venues to contact regarding their upcoming nuptials. Recommend you too choose another venue.

My brother in law's brother got married here over the weekend and it is a very pretty place to get married. I liked the outside location overlooking a lake. It was a cloudy day when they got married but luckily the rain didnt start until after the ceremony. The staff did a great job keeping people from getting wet by providing umbrellas when we needed to go outside. The food was great and the staff was wonderful. If you are thinking about getting married in North Carolina it would be a good idea to take a look at Highgrove Estate.

I have NEVER been so disgusted with a business. I booked Highgrove for my wedding in November 2018. I paid $8,000 up front - $2,000 deposit (to reserve the date) and $6,000 paid up front for services to be rendered. Due to extremely unfortunate and unforeseen circumstances, I was forced to cancel my wedding a few months before the wedding date. I immediately notified Highgrove about the cancellation and politely asked for just the $6,000 since I understood that I would lose the $2,000 deposit. Highgrove stated the only way to get the $6,000 back was if another event was booked. I didn't understand why because no services would be rendered so I sought legal advice. My lawyer advised me to send a letter with my request which was ignored. Then, my lawyer sent a letter. This was also ignored. All I could do was wait to see if they used the venue on the day I paid for, which they DID. I called Vicky (the owner) to ask for my money back, since the venue was used on MY day. According to Highgrove, because they were keeping my money, the only person who had rights to that venue on that day was ME. Not only that, but Highgrove was very intentional about removing tags on social media or posting about this event. This is no coincidence since they always post on their social media and the bride and guests are tagged. She intended to keep my money even though the replacement wedding was already paid for.... DOUBLE DIPPING. Vicky STILL refused to give me my money back, so we went to court. The law was clearly on my side and Highgrove was forced to pay me back. I am SO glad to have my money back and hope they have learned from these events. Please be careful before you sign with this venue and their UNETHICAL practices. All they care about is money. They did not even have the decency to cancel my event in their system and stop the automatic notifications. So, while I am dealing with this among other things, I am getting emails to pick out a cake for a wedding that was no longer going to happen. Be careful. Make sure you read the contract. Check out other venues. It was good seeing you in court, Vicky.

I know this is long guys, but I hope it helps! My husband and I got married at the Highgrove Estates a month ago today! We got engaged the week before Christmas of 2012, I immediately started looking at places to get married because I knew they would book quickly, knowing a lot of people get engaged around Christmas. We made a list of a couple different places,but the Highgrove was top on my list to see first. I emailed, called and left voicemails until my face turned blue! I didn't hear anything back. So we kind of gave up and went to venues we couple get appointments at. We went to one that was close by the Highgrove and it was the worst We figured since we were so close by we would just see if we could walk around and look. This was about mid January now. We pulled up and accidentally barged in on someone else's appointment (I apologized profusely!), but we couldn't get ahold of anyone to get an appointment! Susan was nice enough to still let us walk around and look. As soon as we walked outside we knew we found the place for us! We asked Susan if we could make an appointment as soon as possible, she asked me my name and knew I had been emailing her, but never responded (kind of a pain!). Susan said she would be at the bridal show the next week and asked if we could come there and schedule an appointment, we said we didn't know if we could make it, but we would try. So, we left feeling great and immediately on the phone changing plans around the next week to go to the show just to book this appointment! We made to the show and booked our wedding day! While we were wandering around the show we found our photographer as well (Warren McCormack). It was great! So, the planning really gets started! We sit down to sign the official contract and talk about menus and pricing. She wanted us to figure out a menu package that day (just to have on the book, it could be changed). We were a little surprised because we have never had the food before so we didn't know what we were getting ourselves into. We came to the conclusion that the menu pricing was a little high for our heavy lunch afternoon wedding. So we asked Susan if we could tweak it a little bit for a lunch instead of dinner. She said she would need to call the chef to make sure on pricing of what we had talked about and she would email me more details, which was fantastic! We at least had a different option. We were also informed that the cake was included with the menu packages. Knowing that we wanted a package, but different pricing myself, my mother and my groom as specifically if the cake would be included in our package as we all remember back in February that it was, three peoples memories can't be wrong right! We will get to that later! Everything is going well with the planning until about a month before the big day! I get a call from Susan saying that our cake was not included and that we need to pay the rest to Sweet Memories Bakery, keep in mind we have already "paid" for our cake to Sweet Memories (they charge extra for the different flavoring that are not included in the package). I was quite stunned! I called my husband and mother to make sure that I wasn't wrong and that the cake was included in our contract (granted it is not in the contract, we looked) they both agreed that I was correct in this point, but did not fight it because we couldn't find the email stating this and we needed a cake! So, my husband paid the extra $500 to the bakery 10 days before the wedding! The wedding day comes and it hectic and chaotic as it always is. The girls and I are at the salon getting hair and makeup done when I get a phone call from the florist at 12:30 asking me if I had center pieces there. I told her that I was going to use the ones that the Highgrove provided. Shelley said that the Highgrove did not have them, that they keep them in an off site facility and we needed to order them if we wanted to use them. So, a little panicked at this point because I'm getting married in 2 1/2 hours! Shelley said that she had some at her shop that we were more than welcome to use and she would be on her way right then to get them. Matters all cleared up I continued to relax and enjoy my day. We get to the Highgrove and everything moves quickly! Pictures getting dressed and some snacks that the Highgrove provides for the girls. Amber (the wedding coordinator) shows me pictures of what the center pieces look like, but at this point I'm not worried about them! Amber also informed me they would take the cost. The wedding goes as smooth as possible. The groom and I get so many compliments on how beautiful the venue was and how great the food is. It was great went off without a hitch! Well, a few but whose counting! Pros: venue is beautiful, food is amazing, Amber (our wedding coordinator, she's amazing!), having a list of other vendors who have worked there before Cons: COMMUNICATION, not having an available lunch menu, leaving out details, mail payments

If you want to spend $12,000+ on a place to take beautiful photos, this is your place. If you want a full service event space where you feel your every need and concern is being addressed and is important then spend your money somewhere else. The only time we were considered important was when it was time to write a check. Hard to find, there are plenty of other venues out there that would be a much better choice.

As pretty as it looks in pictures, this place is awful!!!! I have just started the wedding planning process. I have called highgrove three times in the last 2 weeks and left a message each time requesting a call back to schedule a time to come look around and ask questions regarding prices and what not. I have yet to receive calls back. I expressed concern to a friend who decided to call as well. My friend called 30 times back to back and finally got the owner on the phone who said she would call me that day (got my name and number from my friend). Still NO call!!! The advertise stress free plannin....thats a joke bc you stress out to no end that they can't even return a call back.