Katie S.
Yelp
I attended Maghreb prayer here last night and my experience and impressions were different from the other sisters' reviews (maybe things have changed or it was an odd night.) Sisters area was tiny, not very clean, with one bathroom that smelled bad and didn't have a mirror (an extra challenge when you are trying to re wrap a silk hijab).
But the most troubling part was that, despite having multiple signs in the sisters area that state "Brothers are not allowed to sit or sleep in the sisters area," I walked in to find a brother sitting there. He was slow to leave, but I figured it was an exception and didn't react seeing that he was leaving. Then once the adhan was called and I was starting salat, he walks back through the curtain to behind me, grabs a bag, and goes back to the men's side. Then someone else tries to walk in through the partition (I'm just seeing feet at this point), sees I'm there and goes back, then when I was doing my sunnah another guy walks all the way through to the back door.
I really don't have an issue with mixed gender/non-partitioned prayer, though I prefer and appreciate having separate spaces. What I do have an issue with are hypocrisy and double standards. Imagine if the sisters treated the brothers' area so casually!
I was the lone sister there--one came after we started and left while I was making dua (including for the masjid and this situation). I know sisters don't often come in numbers and it does to some extent justify dedicating less masjid space to us, but I think this can become a vicious circle and self-fulfilling prophesy if the space that is there )and the brothers' decisions and actions) do nothing more than discourage and alienate us.
My husband came out saying the place was great and it had some of the best bathroom/wudu facilities he's ever seen. Then I told him about me experience. He said I should have said something directly to these brothers, but understood when I explained that I had already started praying. So this is my way of saying something. May Allah swt guide us all in navigating these issues in our ummah.