Bernadette R.
Yelp
I've spent a few days reflecting on my experience at Lupetto before deciding to write this review. After much thought and discussions with friends and colleagues, I feel it's important to share what happened, especially given my deep respect for the service industry, where I've worked for many years and still have close friends and family involved. The events of that evening were deeply disappointing, particularly given the industry's general professionalism and inclusiveness.
Last Saturday, my partner and I were celebrating our anniversary at Lupetto. I hadn't seen her in a while, so it was a special night for us. The restaurant was busy and loud at 9 pm, but the host kindly accommodated my request to move tables so that we could sit closer to one another. We appreciated that gesture, and the evening seemed off to a good start.
As we enjoyed our drinks and dinner, we were simply being affectionate--holding hands, sharing a few kisses, nothing out of the ordinary for any couple enjoying a night out. I'm a people watcher, and I couldn't help but notice the couple seated across from us. They barely spoke to one another and had cold body language, but I didn't think much of it at the time.
However, as the night progressed and the restaurant began to empty, a woman who appeared to be a hostess or bar manager approached us. She told us, "Excuse me, do you mind? There are families trying to have dinner here, and this is inappropriate." I was stunned. I've dined at countless restaurants in NYC and Miami--some big-name spots, some more casual, but never, in all my years, had I experienced something like this.
My partner went to use the restroom, and I took a moment to survey the room. There were no "families" anywhere nearby--just the couple across from us, three people at the bar, and a few tables in the back. Confused and upset, I approached the woman (whose name I believe was Dion) and asked for clarification. She admitted that the couple across from us had complained and said they were "uncomfortable." When I pressed further, asking if other couples were addressed the same way, Dion lied and claimed to have spoken to another couple, but I knew no such couple existed.
It was clear to me at that moment that my partner and I were being singled out, and it felt like discrimination because we are a lesbian couple. The restaurant was nearly empty, and there was absolutely no reason for this intervention. I was furious--not just for the unnecessary interruption of our evening, but for the clear bias in how we were treated.
I am disgusted by how Dion handled the situation and her blatant dishonesty. I will not be returning to Lupetto, and I will be sure to share this experience with others in the area--whether they are straight, queer, or otherwise. No one should support a restaurant that treats patrons in such a discriminatory and disrespectful manner. Lupetto has lost my respect and my business for good.