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Stopped by for iftar at this masjid for the first time. I’m new to the area, so I wanted to check it out. The masjid itself is beautiful and clean. The community, however, is downright atrocious. These ladies act like they own the place.. I overheard a young girl who said she wanted to use the bathroom in the house where they were doing iftar and this older lady told her she’s not allowed and kicked her out???? Ridiculous if you ask me. They’re not paying rent so I don’t understand why it’s such a big deal to permit someone to use the bathroom. If this place truly belongs to the community, they wouldn’t turn down a girl needing to use the bathroom. Also, I know there is a bathroom in the masjid itself, but if there is one right by you, why would you walk farther away to get to one?? If this place truly belongs to the community, then why do these ladies act like bullies who own the place and make ridiculous rules??
Also the ladies that were putting food in everyone’s plates had such terrible negative energy. They were also sneaking to go boxes of food for themselves. There was also additional food in the kitchen which they didn’t bring out. I saw a small girl in the line who was shouted at by a different lady and she forced this CHILD to go to the back of the line??? AND THEN this same lady let her friend go to the front of the line, her friend being a full grown LADY!!! & mind you this was after a large lady said “children and elderly first”.
Why would you kick a CHILD to the back of the line. I felt so sorry and hurt after witnessing that.
I even looked over at the men’s side and everything was calm and orderly, nice and quiet, no ruckus..why can’t the women’s side be the same?? I felt like I was at a market in a third world country listening to the shouts of merchants. No exaggeration. There’s no politeness, just greed.
Farm animals behave better than the women’s side. I don’t feel the essence of Islam near these women at all. It’s safer and better to stay at home. This was my first time, and last time here. If the community didn’t feel so boisterous, it would be better. The ladies need to do to tobah and act more civilized. Astaghfirullah.