Lisa M.
Yelp
I moved my mother from a CCRC to Merrill Gardens Burien where she lived for a year in Memory Care. The building and interiors are beautiful; the food is pretty good for these types of places. However, the care for my mother was very poor and the cleanliness of Memory Care was also poor.
The staff with a few exceptions were poorly trained, overworked, poor communicators, tired (all had multiple jobs besides this one), and often unresponsive. Residents' family members were having to clean, assist other residents, and sometimes help with serving meals to help attend to the 10 residents.
There were strange incidents and talk of unanswered calls from residents, undue force, Memory care patients walking out, getting lost and falling miles away, residents defecating in the common areas and entering all the other residents rooms and an altercation.
We experienced one night CNA who did not how to read a thermometer or blood pressure, myself and another family member had to assist two other residents get to a toilet when no CNA could be found for 30 minutes.
We finally moved my mother to an adult family home where we found that my mother stopped falling all the time, became less agitated, was cleaned, got a doctor who would come to her, had nails and skin actually taken care of rather than promised at Merrill. Her room always smells fresh and I never have to clean her toilet like I had to do at Merrill Gardens Burien several times a week. They do her laundry, provide toilet paper and diapers, tissue, bandage supplies without charging extra for every little thing delivered or not.
If you go into Memory Care or have a family member that needs to, be prepared to pay another $500 a month in supplies, providing some of the care yourself and in our case we had to hire additional outside 1:1 care to ensure more safety, help with cleaning and laundry (even though many of these services were claimed to be included or provided if extra is paid) if you plan to use Merrill. We even begged the management to allow us to pay them for additional care. We were led to believe that our difficulties were due to my mother being a difficult resident.
What we have since learned is that she's not easy to care for but there are many, many places that know and can care for memory issues. Merrill Gardens Burien is not one of those places.