LemmaRich
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I’ve been going to this store since 1987, back then ıt was a dash in, dash out visit. There was a string of attacks on men of Indian descent, some brutal, some deadly, in this area (NJ/NY/PA); fear breeds ignorance of the unknown; and shopping was fearful at that time. But, Patel’s Cash & Carry stayed thorough ıt all, and the dash in and dash out became a 30+ year trip of slowly browsing to standing, to talking, to getting what I needed to cook my husband’s foods from Ethiopia, since a lot of what he ate resembled Indian cuisine. Although the times have changed, and the store has grown in size, color, light, presentation, employees, product availability, (we no longer see the owner, who would greet/help us even on crowed weekends), the ambience is the same. And I still go in for the lentils, spices, ginger and garlic paste, and treats that now line the shelves and cold sections that weren’t there decades ago. So, to all those Indian men, of Indian ancestry, especially the Patels, thanks for staying, even when it didn’t seem worth it, for you were instrumental in the happiness of my family, and me, as a Black American, at our dinner table. You helped me raise my sons to be men, for your products allowed me the opportunity to cook the foods that define their unique heritage here in America. Sorry, I normally don’t write this long, but it has to be said.