Bobby S.
Yelp
Here's the thing. I've always loved Rockbar. When i moved to Manhattan it was a place that everyone always talked about as being the best place to hang out with fellow bears. The music was great, the drinks were cheap, the staff was amazing, and the boys were burly (or were there to admire the other burly boys).
Writing this in the summer, things have been busy, my visits to an old favorite have become less frequent, i'll admit. But in the past month or so, I've been to Rockbar twice, and both times I've been severely disappointed.
Needing a night out with my cubs last month I suggested we hit up Rockbar. When we got there there was a melange of ladies, twinks, and several drunk groups all rocking out to Madonna. "Madonna?", I thought. Well that was cool, who doesn't like her music. Turns out had stumbled upon Madonna night at Rockbar. Ok, fair enough, it was a sunday night, and if this was bringing in the crowd, business is business. Unfortunately it was not really our type of crowd. Expecting to catch the tail end of beer-blast and wanting to chat up the usually friendly bear crowd there, our expectations were not met.
But hey, I'm all for giving it a second chance. This place has given me many good times. So this Saturday we made the trek across town only to be greeted by - you guessed it - Madonna music! A $5 cover later, we were standing in a rather empty bar sipping our drinks, listening to Holiday. Again, nothing against Madonna, but if I wanted to hear the immaculate collection, I would it on my iPod at home. Where did the "rock" in Rockbar go? Where were the slutty bears I've grown to love?
The "madonna dj", i believe was the same girl from Madonna night. She seemed to have a crowd around her most of the hour that I was there, I suppose her friends. When i went up to ask her to play a request she said she didn't have it - her friend later informed me she could only play the playlist from her iPad. Finding myself asking what happened to the great DJs Rockbar used to employ, I finished my drink, regretted losing my $5 cover, and lamented that this would probably be my last time at Rockbar.