D DM
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I am deeply saddened and disturbed by my recent experience at St. Leon Armenian Church.
I came with nothing more than a single candle in my hand, with the sole intention of lighting it and saying a prayer. I also had with me my small, ADA-approved emotional support/service dog, who is calm, quiet, and specifically trained to help me manage anxiety and panic attacks.
On a separate occasion, I was told by church staff that I could light a candle while accompanied by my dog, so long as I did not enter the inner corridor of the church—a boundary I have always respected. On this visit, I had no intention of going anywhere beyond the candle area.
Unfortunately, I was confronted by an individual named Arthur, who immediately began screaming at me to leave, over and over again. His tone was aggressive and humiliating. I repeatedly tried to explain that I was simply there to light a candle and say a prayer, but instead of showing compassion or even basic decency, he escalated the situation, calling security and yelling at me in front of a group of people, including children.
I was left in tears, shaking, and suffering from a severe anxiety attack—the very condition for which my service dog is intended to help. I was inches away from the candles, begging him to let me light just one candle, and he still continued to scream and drive me out.
This behavior is not that of a Christian, especially not someone representing the Armenian Apostolic Church. A true Christian should know that every single one of us is a child of God, and that a church is God’s home. You do not throw someone out who comes in peace, with a candle in hand, seeking prayer.
Whatever spirit was guiding that behavior was not of God. There was nothing loving, understanding, or Christ-like in the way I was treated. Arthur’s conduct was cruel and unworthy of someone serving in a place of worship. Someone with such a harsh and unkind spirit does not belong in a church—he has no right to push away those who come in tears looking for God’s presence.
My service animal, who behaved silently and respectfully, demonstrated more faith and peace than the individual who screamed at me. It is heartbreaking to witness such behavior in a place that bears the name of the Armenian Church.
I hope that St. Leon Church leadership takes this matter seriously and reflects on the harm done. The way I was treated was shameful and has permanently changed the way I view this church.