Joe J.
Yelp
MD Euan Ashley of Stanford's Sports Cardiology department was 1 hour and 45 minutes LATE to my appointment, supposedly due to an "emergency" that no one except himself could handle.
As the patient, I was forced to 'cool my heels' fiddling with my cellphone in his exam room for much of that time, with his PA coming in a few times to go over my complaint and promise that the MD would be in "shortly". On the PA's last visit, she actually told me what the MD's diagnosis would be, even though the MD had not yet seen me!
Now, if I were 1:45:00 minutes late to our appointment, I guarantee that the MD would not wait or make time to see me.
When he finally entered the exam room, apparently having discussed a summary of my complaint with his PA and then after merely speaking with myself, doing no physical examination whatsoever, MD Ashley concluded that I did not have a real problem with the following nonsense statement.
'You might feel like you are short of breath at times and need to take a deeper breath but you don't really need to do so'!
Huh? This is what I waited almost 9 months in an appointment that the MD was 1:45:00 late to hear?
He continued to embrace and focus on this statement, repeating it a number of times, despite my incredulity and vociferous pushback where I suggested, referring to the old Groucho Marx quote "Who am I going to believe, you (MD Ashley) or my own lying eyes [body]"?.
At the end of the visit, after 30 minutes of discussion and arguing, the doctor offered no further options.
He did not propose any additional testing to attempt to get to the bottom of my ongoing complaint of intermittent shortness of breath and ignored my suggestions for possible actions that might be taken.
Visit over, nice meeting you and then he had the temerity to offer to shake my hand! I declined.
I have read about doctors who have told their patients that their particular illness was a manifestation in their minds but had never actually experienced anything like this personally. I was so stunned that I didn't know what to say that might be civil.
Subsequent research reminded me that I had heard others complain of it and it had a name - GASLIGHTING!
If anyone were to Google MD Euan Ashley, he comes across as the second coming of Jesus, clearly doing an excellent job (or his publicist) of managing his public profile.
My experience after spending 1hour and 45 minutes waiting for him and then 30 minutes with him is completely opposite. I do not believe his profile is honest and would not recommend him to anyone unless, of course, they enjoy being gaslighted by someone who is rude, disrespectful and comes across as stubborn and arrogant.