Shalom T.
Yelp
I had just left a speaking engagement at Simmons College where one of our Congresswoman were in attendance. The feeling I had after the special occasion was an exuberance filled with hopeful bliss. I wanted to walk up to the main street of Tremont to catch a Lyft ride but needed a warm place to wait for 15 minutes. I bypassed about 5 other places to finally look at Tavern of Tales and say "Ok this place looks warm, inviting,people are eating and sitting. I knew maybe I couldn't sit so I would buy tea or drink so I could patronize the restaurant and not make it a rest stop.
I had a few things in my hand and took my mask off during the walk from Simmons. As I attempted to open the Door to Tavern the guy "Tim" allegedly a POC. I try not to use that word for everyone who is non-white because I am an Obvious person of color who faces the blatant discrimination, so I do not use POC for beneficial reasons.. but Tim gave me a look like I had the plague, so I assured him I have a Mask and will be putting it on before entering . So after I am locating my mask, a group of Caucasian Males came behind me a party of 5? And entered with no mask and a warm welcome. So I said to myself "hmmm" ok
Let me just put on mine because the majority do have visible mask, minus one of the workers. Well I didn't get a welcome like EVERYONE else after me but I told "Tim" I will sit at the bar and I am alone.. Tim rolls eyes, maybe he has allergies? But I sit down and he ask me what I wanted to order or drink not in a friendly tone. So I ordered tea. Let's flash fwd . I was asking questions about the establishment and met with one worded answers and an attitude like I was annoying them. So I got up to walk to the side to peak and see how big the place is as my tea steeped. TIM yelled "LOOK IF YOU ARE GOING TO WALK AROUND YOU NEED TO PUT A MASK ON! Yes he yelled it, instead of calling me back to the bar.Where I walked was 4 steps from my seat. Everyone in turn looked at me.. so I sat down and I said, what about the worker who is walking around with no mask? He said I will address it when I see him, I said he was just in your face? But I let it go
Then "Mark" another worker came up on the side of me to pick up an order for the private room in the back, I tried to engage Mark as he sat there waiting for something asking him about the Tavern of Tales and how big is the place and how to book the game room..he was rolling his eyes, Bobbing his head, and moving his hands like "Just Google it" why ask me? Then I got silent after his actions and we had an awkward 1 minute of blatant looking at each other in the eyes . I was so happy when My Lyft came
I feel so horrible in this place, it was icy, and I FELT LIKE I WAS NOT WANTED OR WELCOMED AND THEY HAD NO PROBLEM WITH IT, THEY DIDN'T EVEN TRY TO ACT OR PLAY IT OFF .I was so shaken I told my Lyft driver who happened to be a Dark Brown person like me, we cried and swapped stories of past experiences and How racism is not Over .it is only over to people who do not look like us or go through the experience..Tim is Asian and considered a POC but I didn't expect him to treat me any different but I would hope that he would know that he doesn't have the POWER OR PRIVILEGE to act the way he acted towards me. This is why I am very careful with the whole we all ARE POC and face the same things ..NOT TRUE! There are levels to this but that is a whole other topic. They treated me mean, the other patrons were chilling but the guy who was two seats down from me, I know he felt awkward and he felt the atmosphere by the way he kept looking at me..It is a shame in 2021 that Brown People still can't walk in a restaurant in Massachusetts in a community that is diverse and be Welcomed..
I will never go back there. Thank you Tim and Mark
Yes this Tavern does have Tales!