Reneisha C
Google
We stayed at The Abbey Resort for three days, and unfortunately, the experience was not pleasant. Considering how much we paid, we expected a welcoming and comfortable stay, but instead it felt uncomfortable from the start. Most of the staff were not friendly or welcoming.
One experience that stood out happened at the bar. We waited to be served, but the bartender never turned around or acknowledged us. After standing there for some time, we felt embarrassed and eventually walked away. We later spoke with another African American couple who shared a similar experience. In their situation, the bartender angrily slammed his hand on the bar before asking what they wanted. When the husband calmly asked if everything was okay, there was no clear explanation.
During our stay, we also had issues with basic room accommodations. I called the front desk to request additional washcloths. When they were delivered, the gentleman who brought them looked extremely startled when I opened the door, as if he had seen a ghost. I then asked if the resort provided hand soap, as our room did not have any. He stated that the order had just come in and that he would return with soap. Five hours passed and no soap was delivered. I later saw him in the hallway and asked again, at which point he finally retrieved hand soap for us.
Additionally, the shower water was not hot, making it very uncomfortable to shower in lukewarm to semi-cold water. The parking lot also had a strong odor of urine, which was unpleasant and unexpected for a resort of this caliber.
Given that we did not see many guests or staff who looked like us, combined with the repeated negative interactions, it was difficult not to feel that race may have played a role in how we were treated. No guest should feel ignored, uncomfortable, or unwelcome—especially after paying good money for a resort stay. Unfortunately, this experience did not meet expectations.