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Yelp
Well another wrinkle in this story. Today I got a "compliment" on my yelp review from a "Kai C" that said "Someone turned your coats in today by the way. Enjoy your day. Signed: A Black Barking Dog Customer". I immediately called the bar and said that I heard two coats were returned. The person on the phone said "Is this the person who wrote the nasty review?" I said yes. He said, well there are two black coats. I said our coats weren't black and asked if one was green, he said he couldn't tell and I should come in to check. So a few hours later I went back to the barking dog and found my date's coat and another random coat but not my coat. I didn't talk to anyone at the bar but a waitress who didn't seem involved in anything.
While I'm glad that I got my date's coat back (even though mine is still missing), I find the whole thing suspicious because this "Kai C" has one picture (black female) on her yelp profile and has posted one review in 2019, even though she's been a yelper since 2016 and also has no yelp friends (despite yelp being linked to facebook such that most yelpers have facebook friends linked in). What are the chances that "Kai C" (the alleged barking dog customer), if she happened to take and return my date's coat, was looking at my yelp review of the barking day on the same day that she returns my date's coat? Clearly this alleged person is not an avid yelp user. The bar was also clearly aware of my yelp review as the person who answered the phone there when I called about 15 minutes after getting "Kai C"'s message asked me if I had posted the nasty review. I suspect that this yelp account of "Kai C" is a fake account run by someone at the barking dog (probably the management) who read my "nasty" review and decided to act like our coats were returned (and in keeping with being racist/sexists, they used a photo of a black female for their fake account). Unfortunately, the bar only "returned" one of the our coats (if my suspicions are correct then I'm guessing they have a collection of coats they've stolen from other unwelcome customers somewhere and just grabbed a wrong coat instead of mine). The other possible explanation is that this "Kai C" person showed up at the bar with two coats and the bar asked her to contact me on yelp about it (thus, informing her of the review even though she doesn't appear to otherwise spend time on yelp). I find this latter possibility less likely, given all the other factors, but I suppose it's possible.
Bottom line, the behavior of the bar staff when our coats were taken was unacceptable. Even giving them the benefit of the doubt, that this "Kai C" exists and took my date's coat and returned it, that does not mitigate the bar's utter rudeness to me and my date when our coats went missing. A normal person/business responding to a theft on premises is sympathetic/concerned, expresses empathy, offers us a cup of tea while we wait for our lyft on a cold night given that our coats were taken. In this instance, when my date said our coats were gone, the bouncer cursed at him ("not my fucking problem") and the bar manager was completely dismissive of what had happened ("drunk people take things"). This is guilty behavior. Had they been sympathetic or at all concerned (and not acting so guilty by turning on the rudeness), I would have left my phone number with them and not posted on yelp and when our coats (or my date's) were returned, they could have called me directly to come get it. Instead, because of the bar's attitude, which, based on my experience, seemed VERY guilty because innocent people don't get angry like that at stuff they're not responsible for, I posted it on yelp and whether or not I can prove definitively that they are responsible for the theft, they still deserve the 1 star rating. But I'm still not convinced that the bar isn't behind all of it and I would guess that returning my date's coat was some attempt at gaslighting me after the fact once they read my review.