Haley Murray
Google
My boyfriend and I unfortunately had a very disappointing & distasteful experience last night at Bluebird Cocktail room on 9/13/25. Our server was extremely disrespectful, dismissive and condescending with her body language and tone throughout our very short time in the restaurant. It was my first time, however my boyfriend comes often and confirmed that last night was his absolute worst experience in the bar. We arrived around 10 pm, were quickly seated & approached by our server in a reasonable amount of time. Everything started great, however when she returned, my partner asked if we could have more time to look at the menu. The server shrugged her shoulders, made a snippy comment, silently stared at us for an unnecessary amount of time and then quickly walked towards her coworkers where we could visibly see her complaining on the way to them. She then took extremely long to return to our table & had a noticeable attitude while speaking to us. I asked if everything was okay given the immediate switch in energy despite our very short time in the space and she continuously repeated "what drink can I get you" in a badgering tone which made us extremely uncomfortable. My partner and I then asked for a different server and she continuously repeated "I'm confused" in a very condescending tone, clearly trying to manipulate/ gaslight the situation. I stated very clearly we do not want to have you as our server and she continued to repeat those comments and began over talking me. I stood up to look for a server/ manager which is when she finally felt compelled to borderline sprint across the restaurant in hopes I assume to intersect my communication with staff. I made it very clear that I did not want her doing that given what just took place. I spoke with the host to express our frustrations who seemed to take things seriously initially, however we saw them both chit chatting/ laughing after the incident. We were promised a new server, which did not happen, resulting in us leaving the restaurant. I was so excited to try this place however I will not be back. We were met with undeserved hostility and as someone that previously worked in the industry, you do not treat your tables in this manner. This was a very unnecessary and senseless interaction.
I unfortunately don't have the server's name but she's a short girl about 5 '2, wears glasses and had a longer wrap on slick pony tail.