Amy K.
Yelp
Yesterday was my first visit: I took a closeted teen to visit the Center, maybe get info, make friends, sit in on the afternoon's youth group, etc. He was scared, hesitant to go into the building, and didn't know what to say upon reaching the front desk. He'd originally told me he absolutely wouldn't check out the group, but the Center's staff were fantastic and turned that attitude around.
A nice fellow at the desk took us upstairs to meet Kyle, the Youth Program Manager, who was sweet and very welcoming. He encouraged us to poke our heads into the youth lounge - a room with couches, snacks, a TV, DVDs, video games, board games, books, internet and a handful of teens hanging out and chatting - but didn't pressure my kid to go in. Kyle offered that perhaps Shannon, a youth mentor, might help make my kid feel more comfortable.
And she did. She was fantastic and I hope she sees this, because her attention made all the difference. She did an amazing job of drawing my kid out, coaxing him into the lounge, and then persuading him to stay for the meeting (and pizza).
Long story short, I was there for three and a half hours because my kid refused to leave. The other teens were SO empathic and friendly, shared coming-out stories and advice and gave my kid phone numbers and email addresses if he wanted to stay in touch. They obviously felt at home in the youth center, and Kyle and Shannon knew a lot of them by name. Besides the youth meetings, there's also dances, lessons of various sorts, a book club, and, of course, all sorts of support. I have no doubt the visit empowered my kid and he walked out practically wiggling with excitement. Actually, he was sort of bouncing, not wiggling. Then yelling excitedly in the car.
An incredible resource, SEND YOUR KIDS!!!!!!!!!!