Lyndsey S.
Yelp
The Merchant itself is a beautiful property and not where I had my issues. The grounds are pristine, the rooms clean, and the bed very comfortable.
Where I had my issues was with the staff. They need to be adequately trained on how to communicate clearly on their policies to avoid unnecessary stress to their guests. The whole reason I chose the merchant to stay and get ready in prior to my wedding, was because of the beautiful rooms and atmosphere. I was so excited to have a gorgeous background for all of my getting ready photos and comfortable surroundings for getting ready for our big day.
Fast forward to check in, I was asked to read the disclaimers prior to signing and second on the list was essentially a statement saying if you are staying here for an event, such as a wedding, you are still limited to 3 guests. Of course, knowing I would have more than that, and this being the first time I had been told anything like this (and considering we had a card in our room congratulating us on our nuptials, they were aware why we were there. I had also reached out a few times prior to our stay), I explained what we were staying here for and if the amount of visitors I had would be a problem. I was repeatedly told they didn't feel comfortable answering that question until they spoke to their manager. However, the manager was not in, and would not be in until 9AM the next day. To which I explained, hair, makeup, etc would be arriving at 8AM, so if it was going to be an issue, I needed to know then, so I could find new getting ready arrangements. The staff member did not budge, and did not offer to reach out to their manager for help/clarification. This mind you, was hours before our rehearsal, roughly 4PM, and the day before our wedding. My wedding planner immediately called and emailed the manager, but didn't get an answer until 8:45AM the next day. So my entire rehearsal dinner was spent scrambling to find a new getting ready location, alerting all of the vendors, bridesmaids, and family to the change and new location, timing, etc. I was extremely distressed. It took away from what should have been a very exciting time, and put a damper on the evening.
The next morning on my way out to get ready at our new location, the manager very casually mentioned it was no problem for us to get ready at the hotel, they just like to have a discussion with the group first about being respectful to the property and other guests. I cannot even begin to explain my frustration at this point!!!! Why did the staff not explain that up front during check in?? Why did we not get this simple easy answer via email when my planner asked the day prior??? SO much unneeded stress could have been avoided with that simple statement!!! Of course we would have been respectful! But at that point I had already gone through all of the hassle to alert the vendors, change the timeline, adjust lunch delivery that it was too late to revert back to the original plans without losing even more getting ready time.
The cherry on top/ultimate salt in the wound? I was woken up the morning after our wedding by other guests... you guessed it! GETTING READY FOR A WEDDING IN THE MAIN LOUNGE/THEIR ROOM!!! So so soooo upsetting. While of course my wedding day was great, I will never, ever, forget the stress leading up to it caused by the merchant staff.