EM H.
Yelp
For DJ's birthday dinner on Thursday, March 13, 2025, he opted to go to The Refuge again, but at the San Carlos location.
I easily made reservations via OpenTable for 7:30 PM. After quickly finding a space to park just a few feet away from the front entrance (Like most establishments on the street, The Refuge does not have a private lot), we arrived between 7:35 and 7:40 and were seated immediately at the corner table in the back, right by the bar. Once one of the booths freed, up, we were quickly moved, per our request.
The restaurant offers patio, table, booth, and bar seating. Inside, red walls pop out in the dining room of brown flooring and wooden table and chairs. The walls are adorned with Belgian posters and sports regalia. On the night of our visit, the dining room appeared clean and tidy. When asked about the unisex restroom, though, I was advised that I probably would not want to go there.
The Refuge's four-page menu has three pages of drinks, mostly of BEER, so this is a great place for beer aficionados like DJ. They also specialize in pastrami, which DJ also digs...even though he is mainly a vegetarian.
Below are what we ordered:
Delirium Black Beer ($13) - "It was good, I wasn't blown away by it," per DJ.
"New" Spicy Fried Chicken Sandwich with upgraded Goofy Fries ($17.45 + $10.95 for Goofy Fries Upgrade) - I was concerned that V might find fat in the deep-fried chicken thighs and get turned off, but he ate every morsel of his sandwich with enjoyment. He liked the Goofy Fries, but, WOW! A $10.95 upcharge for the upgrade is pretty steep.
Pastrami Burger with upgraded Goofy Fries ($23.45 + $10.95 for Goofy Fries Upgrade) - Z said that his plate was good. DJ and he guessed that the upgrade price for Goofy Fries was only $5. When I revealed the true amount, they both nearly choked. Those fries are EXPENSIVE!
The 963 ($26.95) - If anyone watched DJ eat this, they probably wouldn't believe that he is mainly a vegetarian. But he is and he loved every bite.
The Champ Cheesesteak ($18.45) - Good, but DJ and I agreed that the sandwich was dry enough that I had to ask for some mayonnaise to put on the bread.
CHURROS with Vanilla Ice Cream ($8.95 + $3 for added Vanilla Ice Cream) - V also enjoyed this very much.
CHOCOLATE POT DE CREME ($5.95) - YUMMY!
BREAD PUDDING ($9.95) - DJ loved this dessert.
Service was quick, friendly and accommodating. To treat him for his birthday, The Refuge served a complimentary bowl of VANILLA ICE CREAM, topped with a lit candle, with DJ's BREAD PUDDING as well as a free taste pour of the Humble Forager Sequoia Anniversary Special Beer. Small gestures like that show that the staff is thoughtful and warm.
We had a nice time at the Refuge. Below are the individual star ratings from everyone, resulting in a 4.5 star average.
Z: 5
V: 5
DJ: 5
M: 3