James B L.
Yelp
I've been dancing for over two years in about a half dozen different cities, and I only recently had a major run-in with the dance community. I was badmouthed on social media from a dance group in Phoenix, Arizona, called "Zouk Phoenix", because the organizers there had an axe to grind with me over a personality conflict, claiming that I was banned from certain classes and events there over complaints from a couple of the girls claiming that I "harassed" them. Once Vidalidad Movement Arts Center in Portland got wind of the conflict in Phoenix (which is currently being dealt with, and several attempts to resolve it have already been attempted), they decided to jump on the bandwagon and exclude me from attending classes here at VMAC, stating that they didn't want me anywhere near their students based off what they've heard. There is no proof of any kind that I have ever knowingly nor willingly created a hostile environment for anyone in the dance community; in fact, I have many personal and professional references whom I've attended classes with who are more than willing to vouch for me and my positive, outgoing character, and displaying enthusiasm to learn and make new friends. I've asked both VMAC and Zouk Phoenix to cite any specific instances of these so called claims of "harassment" or "bad behavior towards women", and neither have been able to produce anything other than a couple of screen shots where I expressed polite but firm dissatisfaction from being treated rudely outside of the class setting. I've always gone out of my way, despite any personal feelings, to make everyone in the class setting very comfortable, as I'm fully aware that this is an intimate setting and certainly wouldn't want anyone's discomfort being in close proximity with me to interfere with the learning experience.
I have spent countless hours on the phone, over e-mail, and on messaging apps to try and plead with Vitalidad to allow me a due process and afford me the equal and fair opportunity to attend classes here as anyone else would, and to allow me to prove myself so that they may formulate their own judgments and opinions of me instead of that of hearsay and rumor. Not only did their snap judgments and jump to conclusions rob me of my ability to train at the largest dance academy in Portland who teaches already rare styles that are difficult to find training in, but they've also disparaged me and sabotaged my reputation with a dance community that, thus far, as of the time of this writing, I've never even had a chance to step foot in. I literally moved here weeks ago for work, and now any future attempts to enter this scene has already been tainted, when all I did was express positive interest in starting the classes that I paid for. VMAC has chosen to refund my class tuition and send me an e-mail threatening legal action should I choose to speak out against discrimination, but that is exactly what is going on here. Discrimination. It just so happens that it's not against a protected class, such as age, race, religion, sex, or otherwise. But I absolutely feel that I am well within my rights to claim unfair discrimination based on personality traits, unfounded and unsubstantiated claims of harassment that never happened, and slander/defamation of character due to the fact that they've already let their students know about the situation, which has and will in the future, affect my ability to make new friends here and be accepted into this scene. This has now affected my lifestyle, my ability to socialize here, and considering that I'm a paying customer and patron, it's just bad business. I am not alone in my views on this. Many of you may agree with the studio's decision to reserve their right to refuse service to anyone, but what they have done is morally and ethically irresponsible and unprofessional, and it will not be tolerated. The case thus far has already piqued the attention of media outlets around the nation and until I am welcomed here and given a fair chance, I will not stop protesting this establishment. Thank you for reading.