Octavia Randall
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If you don't go by your legal first name and don't want to hear it spoken out loud in front of everyone you know, DO NOT GO HERE. I really wish I could say that I fully enjoyed my experience here, because I did actually have fun, but I had a horrific experience at the end of my night out with friends on 4/16 that ruined this place for us.
It was a birthday party, and we had a small group of 5 in room 4 being helped by Johnny. Super great guy, really fun and chill personality. He took care of us throughout the night, and specifically made sure to only ask for our last names when we paid, because he knew that not everyone goes by their legal first name. As a trans person who can't afford to change their legal name, that made me feel very safe.
Once our time was up, Johnny wasn't there anymore, but there was another person at the bar who called us over to close our tabs. It took a while for him to figure out the system, but in the time we were waiting, whoever the lady was at the front desk at 8pm that night starts calling out to us "(My legal first name)? Is there anyone named (legal name) here?" and I was mortified. My friends have never heard my legal name before because, again, I'm transgender, and that information is incredibly sensitive. She outted me in front of all of them. I lifted my hand a little to not draw attention to myself but to still acknowledge her, and she said something like "(Legal name)? Hi, yeah, we need to settle your tab." and I very angrily responded "Yeah, we're working on it." and I fully turned my body away from her. I stormed out of the building once the tab was settled, and I still haven't fully emotionally recovered now 3 days later. It's been on my mind this entire time.
That experience was so devastating that I'm making sure none of my friends and I will ever return. $60 to sing some songs and get deadnamed in front of my friends is the biggest waste of money I can think of. Probably too late to demand a refund, if they can even figure out their own system enough to do it.
Honestly, this is Portland, Oregon. Queer folk are around every corner. It blows my mind that the woman at the front counter, the person positioned to be the FACE of this establishment, would be so uneducated. If you're trans, save yourself the money and the embarrassment and go somewhere else.