Dddavid G.
Yelp
About three years ago, I went to San Francisco for my birthday and spent six days sleeping on the couch of an old friend. I guess he felt bad for me because he and his wife decided to surprise me one day and take me to Sonoma County. I really had minimal experience with wine and, more often than not, whatever i was drinking would just give me a headache. Needless to say, that trip to wine country changed every single perception that I had about wine and the people that enjoy it (although most are still totally make-fun-of worthy; maybe even me.)
So, ever since that day, I've tried expanding my knowledge of wines. I'm no expert and i don't have the sharpest nose in the shed but, when i'm at a restaurant, i like my chances at guessing. it's educated guessing, of course, but still guessing.
Anyway, yes, the staff at Wolfe's can be a bit snooty (The US 1 location is waaay friendlier) and kind of, how should i put it? a bit off-putting? hm. whatever. but, my thoughts are, who cares? i'm not there to make friends. i'm there to pick up some killer wines. and i have never once been disappointed with their recommendations.
I really don't think you should feel embarrassed or overwhelmed walking in there. Just let them know that you're interested in wines less than $20, $30, $15, $100 whatever. let them know if you prefer red or white and let them know if this is for a date, a gift, a meal, a dinner party, a tasting, or something else entirely. but go in their with balls. don't be all shy-sheep about it. Say, this is what i want goddamn it. and i ain't leaving until i get it!
They've never done wrong by me. and i can't imagine they'd lead you astray either. Plus, their weekly tastings are a great way to actually sample the wines and discover what it is you like instead of shopping blindly.