Artemis L.
Yelp
My husband and I had the oddest experience at El Sirenito yesterday!!
We'd gotten couples massages earlier in the day, then gone to Fran's Chocolates for a decadent post-massage treat. Feeling hungry for more than just chocolate, I noticed El Sirenito across the street from the Fran's. After perusing their menu posted near the entry door, I enthusiastically entered this place.
I was 100% under the impression that this was a restaurant WITH a bar, and I went inside because I wanted a good meal. I don't drink very often, I'm over 21 by well over a decade, and I wasn't planning on ordering any alcohol. So, even if I had noticed the small sign to the left of the entry door saying that the entire establishment is 21+ (which I did not notice), it probably wouldn't have fazed me.
My husband and I sat down at a table located on the outdoor back patio, which is a beautiful environment with large black sun umbrellas, cafe lights, and greenery.
Looking forward to what looked like it would be an absolutely delicious dinner in a relaxing environment, I was a bit shocked when the waiter asked to check my ID. Oddly enough, I didn't have my ID with me, which is a very unusual situation. I didn't have it with me because my brain sometimes gets very forgetful post-massage, my husband was driving, and I didn't want to have to worry about possibly forgetting my purse at the spa.
I told our waiter that I wasn't going to be ordering any alcohol, and I told him my actual age. I don't usually give out my actual age, but let me just say that my college years are more than 15 years in the past, and that if I'd been a teen mom I could have a KID who'd be 21 years old right now!!
At this point I wonder if our poor waiter thought that I might be from the liquor board or something. After all, most people do have their ID on them most of the time. It's odd not to, and I hadn't thought to explain my reason to him for not having it. Whether or not he wondered this, he got very strict and insisted that he was not able to serve us, and told us that he cards all patrons prior to serving them, whether or not they order alcohol.
Stomach growling, I got a bit cheeky and asked him if he'd carded every single person on that patio. He admitted he hadn't carded the white-haired guy in the corner.
Then he said to me very sternly, "You don't look like the age you say you are."
At this point I felt torn between being offended that he was accusing me of lying, or flattered that he was so sure that I was much younger than I am!
Again, I never once attempted to order alcohol, nor did my husband!
I finally asked him if we could place a to-go order. The food looked amazing, and I didn't consider him to be rude, just strict. I hadn't been aware that this was a 21+ establishment, I just wandered into it spontaneously and a bit obliviously, so that's on me.
He agreed to the to-go order. I ordered the rockfish ceviche, the chips with salsa and housemade guacamole, and the sopa de mariscos (seafood soup).
My husband ordered the ahi tuna tostada.
The manager reached out to me and apologized to me (I had NOT asked to speak to him, he did this of his own accord). I just wanted my food and was glad I was going to get it one way or another, and I felt that an apology was not necessary. He explained that the liquor board has been very strict lately. I'm sure they have.
The chips are the best, thickest, freshest chips I've ever eaten from a restaurant. The housemade guacamole is AMAZING. The ceviche is moist, flavorful, and very fresh. The soup is hearty, warm, and wonderful, with generous portions of seafood. My husband really liked his ahi tostadas.
I can't fault this restaurant for following their own rules, that *I* didn't notice. And I haven't been carded *anywhere* for quite a while, even in the rare instances that I *do* order alcohol - I think it's been years since I was last carded! - so having thought it over between feeling flattered and offended, I think I'll choose to be flattered. Obviously they're just trying to be strict with completely understandable rules, for completely understandable reasons.