Stephanie P.
Yelp
Hi all!
I'm the classy broad Ingrid S. spoke about in her review. Yes, I bought a $10 "all you can drink" wristband here on a Wednesday night, yes I try to bring everyone I can here - no, I'm not a 'regular' as I'm not usually in this part of Astoria and yes, there was a time when summer 2012 I did spend a lot of time here and I'm sure their owner Patsy might remember me fondly (my gosh are their rum soaked cherries an amazing, sweet slice of heaven!).
So half way down my Sam Adams Octoberfest I told my boyfriend he could finish it. As Ingrid S. noted, we generally share everything, I mean - sharing is caring RIGHT?! So in the back it's waitress service and thus I ordered a Blue Moon. This was our nightcap. I was only getting 1 beer, the boy was (at that point) enjoying my half-beer and ready to PURCHASE HIS OWN BEER and my friend and I were looking over their food menu to share something between our group.
After we placed our Blue Moon and bacon cheese fries order the bartender came over to personally pay us a visit and to literally BERATE me in front of the back. He yelled at me as if I were a child and he called me a THIEF. My boyfriend totally understood that the bartender was RIGHT and I should have not apparently shared my beer or ordered one until I washed mine down, but my problem lies with his DELIVERY and overall treatment. A simple "don't do that again" would have sufficed plenty.
I LOVED this bar. See my first review of this place, it's oozing with enthusiasm, joy and radiates all the good things that Mad Donkey Bar has to offer. I was treated like a common thief, my friends and boyfriend were humiliated and mortified. I ended up paying $10 for my one Sam Adams beer since I only got one beer with my wrist band, I paid $7 for the Blue Moon that I was HUMILIATED and MISTREATED over and paid for the food since it was the day before Ingrid's birthday and I figured I would pick up the tab since I just wanted to get out of there and yes, I even tipped because I know people have bills to pay so he at least got $30 out of this "thief".
I do intend on NEVER spending a single freakin' dime here, EVER. I plan on NEVER raving about this place to my friends when in this area because to be honest, there are plenty of other bars in Astoria - yes, I'd rather even go to Studio Square where it's impersonal, cold and not a true neighborhood/warm/fuzzy-feeling establishment, but at least they don't treat their patrons like children.
The professional thing to do would have been for the bartender to take me aside and at least let me talk. I WAS apologetic about the whole thing, I wasn't confrontational and yeah, I made an error and totally owned up to it. But no worries, he'll never have to deal with this "thief" again.