Amanda G.
Yelp
My gf wanted to bring her sister here for a birthday celebration so I made an 11:45p reservation for a table for four for my gf, her sister, her sister's friend and myself. My gf's sister and the friend arrived first and we stood outside, catching up for some a few minutes. It's no secret that I'm in the final weeks of pregnancy and I came out, solely for support and to help celebrate a friend's special day.
I am very obviously pregnant and despite the bouncers seeing me in plain view, no one approached us regarding the fact that I'm expecting. We finally started to walk towards the door to show our identification for entry and the bouncer at the door checked my gf's sister's ID, then her friend's and when it was time to check mine, he simply pointed at my belly and shook his head, telling me that would not be allowed entry. I asked why and he told me that it was for my safety because I'm very pregnant. Never having ever been refused entry in a bar/lounge my entire pregnancy, I proclaimed that I'd never heard of such a policy as just last week I patronized both, Plunge Rooftop at the Gansevoort Hotel AND Down The Hatch in the Village with no issue (follow me!). He then stated that it was the sole policy of Mamajuana and that I would not be allowed inside. I asked for management and Carlos came out to speak to me, basically echoing the same thing the bouncer at the door said. I asked him if he was the manager and he said that he was head of security so I asked to see the literature regarding said policy because I was perplexed as I've never heard of a policy in NYC where pregnant woman have to, either sign a waiver in order to gain entry to a bar or not gain entry at all; the waiver, he explained, they did not have on hand.
I again asked for a manager of the establishment and was told that there was only a general manager on site so I requested to speak to him. The man came out with an attitude from the beginning and I immediately asked his name because I knew he was not going to be very helpful. He answered with, "What's YOUR name" so I bypassed the nonsense and just read his name tag; Mairobin was his name. My gf's sister was a little upset that they would not let me in, especially since at this point, her birthday was in a few minutes because it was close to midnight and she was vocalizing her discontent to her friend within earshot. I'm assuming the Gen Mgr did not appreciate her disapproval. After asking Mairobin a few times for something in writing that stated their policy on serving pregnant women and allowing entry of pregnant women, he turned right around on his heels and said he would not speak to me. Honestly, I can't tell you if he even had eye contact with me from the moment he came outside. The head of security (Carlos) tried to persuade him to stay and speak to me because I was calmly asking him questions regarding their policies but he was not trying to deal with any customer service at all. I took a few pics of him because I wanted to make sure I had a reference other than a name, especially with his behavior towards me and I really did not understand why I was being treated this way. I requested to speak to someone else in management but was told he was the only one on site.
After a few moments, Mairobin came back out and told me that he would not speak with my gf's sister talking over him. She was not even present so I did not understand why he was bringing her up to me and I told him, I'd rather not speak about her and that I want to know about their policies and why I am not being allowed entry. He got upset again and said that I was doing the same thing and, again, walked away. At this point, I was just waiting for my gf to get there so I could leave.
I held it together for the most part but to have a crowd of people, likely judging me, just because I'm out with girlfriends for a celebratory event made me want to crawl into a ball. It was embarrassing to be turned away just because I'm pregnant, made to feel as though I can't be out with friends and that I was somehow putting my unborn child in danger. It made me feel like they were insinuating that I was being irresponsible by wanting to be in that type of establishment when I was only there to be supportive and celebrate a friend's birthday. Not to mention that, nowhere on their website does it say anything along the lines of limited entry due to pregnancy because that is just as utterly ridiculous as it sounds. I feel completely discriminated against...all because I'm with child.
They operate as a restaurant that turns into a lounge and my question is, had we made earlier reservations for dinner and stayed after they converted into a bar, would they have kicked me out? I mean, where would it end? This can't be legal and I'm determined to make sure that no one in my position ever feels as though they are being shamed for partying (responsibly or otherwise), while pregnant.