Nikki D.
Yelp
I typically enjoy this little neighborhood bar. I just moved to this neighborhood a month ago and was excited to be living within walking distance of this block of bars. When some out of town friends from college came to town Sunday night, I thought it was the perfect opportunity to show them a little Ballard.
Keep in mind we are a group of 6 females, one male. I am the youngest at 25. None of us were wearing high heels or Ed Hardy but because we don't look like the people who work at and frequent this bar, we were met with abrasive hostility.
I had never been on a Sunday night, and since I wasn't sure whether we should be ordering from the servers or the bartender, I asked the server clearing our table "Should we order from you?"
She replied with "If not me then I don't know who"
A simple "Yea, you can order from me" would have been sufficient.
"Ok then" I said, and turned to my friends to find out what people might like when the server abruptly told me to:
"Fuck Off" and walked away from the table.
I thought I must have misheard her and my friend told me she thought I was confused also.
However, we were surprised to hear the server return to tell me to FUCK OFF again.
I approached the bar in total confusion, wondering what I could have done to offend someone enough to tell me to FUCK OFF. The server asked me if I was "ready to be nice to her" and I told her that I wasn't sure what I had done to offend her. She continued to be a complete bitch to my party and as we were walking out the door, told us to "come back when we were 21"
I was mortified and upset. I work as the lead server at a restaurant and know how to treat service staff, and would never be rude to another industry person.
I have always had good service here in the staff but was so appalled by my experience last night, I will never go back to The Tin Hat. I know they don't need my business, but this server and the management should be ashamed by such lack of decency.
I wonder what makes employees think they can be so awful to the public. Perhaps she was being encouraged by the management to be a total fucking bitch?
If you don't look or talk like these people, then I would go somewhere else. They have absolutely no tolerance for differences at all.