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The Most Disturbing and Violent Experience I Have Ever Had in a Bar
I am still shaken by what happened at this establishment, and I feel a responsibility to warn anyone—especially people of color—about what I personally experienced here.
I visited this bar expecting a normal night out. Instead, I was physically assaulted by a security staff member without justification. The violence was shocking, completely unprovoked, and something I never imagined would happen in a place that portrays itself as welcoming and “safe.”
What made the situation even more disturbing was what happened afterward. Rather than supporting me, the bar manager attempted to pressure me into not reporting the assault to the police, offering future “free drinks” instead of accountability. The expectation that I should stay silent after being harmed—because it was more convenient for their business—is something I will never forget, and never forgive.
I ultimately chose to file a formal police report and am now pursuing this matter through civil channels. No customer should ever be put in a position where they are assaulted and then encouraged to hide it.
As a Black Minnesotan, I cannot overstate how alienating and humiliating this experience was. I walked into this bar believing it was a safe, inclusive place—only to realize that my safety and dignity were treated as expendable.
This was, without exaggeration, the most disturbing, unsafe, and unprofessional experience I have had in any bar in my entire life. A business that allows its security to behave this way—and whose management responds with coercion instead of accountability—should not be serving the public.
And let me be clear: I will continue to share this experience publicly, across every platform available to me, until other individuals fully understand that this is not a safe space. People deserve to know exactly what can happen here, and I refuse to let this be brushed aside or silenced.
I am deeply disappointed, deeply hurt, and determined to make sure no one else goes through what I did.