"Sometimes, it’s nice to look like you aren’t trying too hard. If you do this correctly, you can convince someone that you’re cooler than you actually are. So for your next date night around Bed-Stuy, start at Glorietta Baldy. It’s a low-key neighborhood bar, and it’s almost definitely cooler than wherever you hang out with friends in your own neighborhood. Stop by with your date, grab some stools, and have a few cocktails while you figure out how much you like each other." - bryan kim